22 [M4F] [#Long Island #New York] So I guess I'm second then lol.

Name - John

Age - 22

Location - Long Island, New York

Type of relationship - Romantic with lots of physical affection, including but not limited to deep hugs, wild kisses and reciprocated massages.

Am I ok with long distance? - For now I am, but I want to start a family within the next 10 years. For long distance, VRChat is fun.

Acceptable age range: 19-27 years old.

Brief bio - I'm 22 years old. I’m a business/IT university graduate taking part time masters classes while working. Long Island is absurdly expensive, so unless I find a lover to pay for an apartment with me, or I move to a less expensive state like North Carolina, I’m stuck in my family’s house with our two fluffy cats still. I inherited anxiety and depression from my mother’s side of the family. No I don’t have panic attacks. I also have borderline Asperger’s syndrome, but you wouldn’t know it unless you talked to me for a while. I prefer playing games with people. I also know sheet music and can make it, having experience with the violin and guitar. I want deeply to love and be loved since I’ve been missing that internal feeling most of my life. I must warn, though, that my libido is HIGH. I can hide it, but not well if you can read my face well. I have a basic interest in biking and hiking, preferably in windy areas to avoid flying bugs. I’m not good with flying bugs. If on pc, VRChat is fun, and you don’t need VR to play it, just a pc that can handle it. I’m 1000% sub, but I can still do dominant things in bed and online if asked for. I like GFD, but no pegs please.

Picture - not comfortable posting that just yet, but I can give a physical description of myself: I’m not ugly don’t worry lol. 5’9”. Dirty blonde hair: straight, flows, and soft. White. Light blueish-brown eyes. Well-trimmed goatee side burns (I don’t like how I look clean-shaven). 200lbs: 25lbs above the BMI healthy weight for my height. It’s hard to lose weight when sugars and carbs are in like every American food and drink. Near-sighted glasses, not super strong lenses.

Why Role-Reversal? - I’m not just submissive in bed, but in life, too. I have a sweet heart that is not attractive to most women around me. Most women look for a strong dominant man who will satisfy the role of provider and protector. I can work to provide, but I want to be the one who gets to be held lovingly and feel safe. I’m tired of pretending to be a person I’m not only to get dumped anyway. I want a woman who genuinely understands that, as I am the type of person who will work hard to understand them.