Hi, I turned 30 three months ago and I feel its high time that I look for a marraige partner.

When I deeply love someone, I become someone who is nervous, fearing I might unintentionally hurt their feelings. This makes me incredibly loyal and dedicated, to the point where I completely lose interest in other women. My focus narrows, and I can only recall the faces of women I encounter regularly, like family and colleagues.

Energetic and active: I am always full of energy despite my age of 30. I still go cycling, climb mountains, run and do much much more. Even after a whole day at work I am full of energy even at 12 midnight.

I have travelled to different countries and had an opportunity to go to places that are normally restricted to the public due to my job and experienced so many things and continue to have some amazing experiences.

With my present job, I get to attend high class events where the best food, music and sometimes get to see celebrities perform in one of the most iconic cities in the world.

Having experienced both nature and the outdoor life in the mountains and now the luxury life, I just don't know what more to try out. I have literally experienced so much in life, more so compared to most people my age.

Even when it comes to sleeping I can fall asleep in a five star hotel or a even on a sleeping bag on a concrete floor. Recently I slept in the desert under the stars next to a camp fire.

For work, I wear a three-piece black suit with Oxford shoes and a black Fedora hat which works well for the job and the high events I have to attend each week.

I am also incredibly independent as I live and work in a foreign country with no family or anyone, but everyday when I come back to my flat, I wish I had someone to serve and the same goes when I wake up.

The problem with being incredibly flexible is making decisions like what do I eat for dinner? Breakfast and lunch is provided by the company I work at. Where I do travel this weekend? I also have a hard time deciding what to wear outside work.

For food when I have to spend money I go by what is the cheapest option as my taste memory is poor. If you ask me what exotic dish I ate last week at a high class event, I don't remember the taste. But at events I try everything from the greens to the meat to whatever exotic dishes the chef's prepare to stay healthy. For travel I ask my friends where they are going in the weekend and tag along. If they decide not to go anywhere, I stay in my apartment sleeping till noon, then do chores anything else that needs to taken care of and then play PUBG or endlessly scroll through reels on Facebook.

I know that watching reels is a waste of time, buts that's where the prower of FLR comes in. One rule from you banning me watching reels and that's it. Same goes for PUBG

In a marriage I would like a partner who would pick out an outfit for me to wear when we go out together casually, sorry, but outside the suit for work, my taste in fashion is horrible (this is what my ex used to tell me and was the only relationship I had ever been in).

This is because since I was a child, I grew up in the mountains where I would run, climb and prioritised military shoes that had grip and clothing that gave me the freedom to move without restrictions. This has also made me strong where even at 30 I have the level of energy I had when I was a teenager.

My ideal wife is someone who wants an FLR, sets rules, deciplines her husband. And as a husband I want to love, fear, be loyal and committed.

I also want to be the one who is solely responsible for all chores and also be responsible for cleaning up any mess you make and as a wife your duty is to relax or do whatever you like. This way you can come home, toss your shoes and clothes on the floor or wherever and not have to worry about it.

Social Media: I personally don't like using Instagram but because I am single I also have Facebook. After marriage I want to remove all my photos and keep social media strictly to communicate with family, friends and clients. I am fed up with posting photos, writing post like and so. I want to stop searching and just settle down.

To make a wife led marriage easier one day, I already use a system that will make it easy for my future partner to easily take control.

Financial where you can decide what I am not allowed to buy and how much I am allowed to spend. I use a Google sheet to track every expense and this can be shared with you. This will also allow you to highlight purchases I have made that your not happy with or write comments.

Using Google photos so that all images on my phone are automatically uploaded to the cloud where you can access from your phone anytime via the partner sharing. This also includes any images received from others on WhatsApp.

Google Task: I currently use Google Task to schedule any task I want to do, from laundry, to shopping or anything else that needs to be done and the same can be done in a relationship where the wife can write down task she wants me to do on the app which will appear on my phone screen and when I finish a task I can tick it off.

Rules: Google Docs or Notes seems to be ideal.

Location tracking: I use a tag with my keys which are on me at all times and we could set up tracking on my phone, so that you can know where I am anytime.

Why I prefer an FLR? Everything I have done in my life is scary at first but once I take that leap of faith and be brave. I am rewarded with some of the best life experiences, I have had in life.

The same will go for an FLR marraige. I am scared of FLR because of the punishments, but I also know that serving a women in love is the the most rewarding feeling. Punishments are a way for a women to show her love and care. She disciplines her man because she wants her husband to improve, to be healthy and become better.

I know I have not written much here but if you would like to get to know each other better send me a message and let's go from their.

Personally, I would prefer a voice call as it really helps each other to connect and discuss things freely and really form a connection.

Please note. I am 100% serious about this and am willing to get married anytime.

I know I have not mentioned anything about the Kinks like some post do and this is because I am open to trying out different things but first I want to connect with you on the emotional side and get to know you well. After all, once married I will be under your control for the rest of my life.