this might be quite niche, but i thought i’d put it out there and see what happens!

i am ideally looking for an IRL only dynamic where you play a sort of bodyguard role in situations where i would be otherwise anxious (going out to eat, trying new pubs and bars, attending appointments, going to the gym, running errands, etc.) and i get to reward you by controlling you in all the ways you need. think of me as the princess who gets to demand anything and everything of a loyal knight 😌

i’m looking for someone who is physically a lot bigger than me (i’m 5’5 and quite slender), is reasonably fit, and would generally be described as masculine (NBs welcome!). someone in a dominant position in their day-to-day life would also be ideal so that i can provide a mental reprieve from that role. i am very much someone who is always in control and responsible so i understand the desire to switch off, and see this as a fulfilling outlet for my micromanaging nature as well. 

this is not purely a sexual exchange. i want to get to know each other as people, go on dates, and spend quality time together. however, when it comes to sex, i’m primarily interested in providing denial, degradation and humiliation, ignoring, chastity and orgasm control, general mind-fuckery; and receiving worship and service in the form of oral, massages, biting, begging, and sometimes penetration as a special reward. also into primal play, lingerie and playing dress-up, giving rules, praise, receiving gifts, and experimenting with toys (pegging tbd). especially love to dote while giving aftercare. i also have a big military/uniform kink, and enjoy the thought of making a pillar of masculinity submit to someone like me. open to discussing all other kinks you might have.

someone protective, handy, and confident in themself is highly desirable. the ability to engage in witty banter and nuanced conversation is essential. so is time and availability - no wife and kids, please. i need someone at my beck and call lol. 

my non-kinky interests exist mostly on the spectrum of history, art, politics, philosophy and literature. i care very much about your interests and would like to know about them too!

very important: i am non-binary in a transmasculine way (as in, i have had top surgery and taken testosterone in the past). while i have long hair and am very androgynous, i am not a girl/woman/female, and straight men should not bother contacting me because we will not be compatible. to show that you have read this far and respect me, please ask for my pronouns when you message.