Hi! I'm a queer nerdy introvert who's looking to explore a role-reversal dynamic with a gentle feminine man.

My career is a big part of my life, but I'm looking for a happy homemaker to come home to. 

About me

Appearance: I'm a short (156cm or 5'1"), 52kg, feminine-presenting woman of chinese heritage. I only wear basic makeup but I stay on top of grooming, especially my skin.

Personality: I'm an introvert, ISTJ-T. I can be quite reserved with unfamiliar people, but chatty with people I'm comfortable with. I prefer socialising in small groups as it gives me the chance to have deep meaningful conversations. My most notable trait is my ambition. I find it difficult to be idle, so I'm always working towards  my personal or career goals. I'm a huge believer in taking my future into my own hands, and this extends to relationships as well. Unfortunately, a sweet boy is not just going to fall into my lap. :')

Hobbies/interests: My interests include D&D (I play a weekly game), anime (Frieren is a masterpiece), east-asian historical fantasy books (I wish I could squeeze more books out of Shelley Parker-Chan), science (virology and infectious diseases) and indie music (always accepting new recommendations).

I also enjoy reading about current affairs and listening to news podcasts (The Economist is a favourite).

I absolutely love desserts. The highlight of a recent holiday was having a sweet treat every evening. 

Love language: I remember the likes and preferences of my loved ones, and I enjoy giving thoughtful gifts. I'd love to have someone to buy flowers for. My other love language is quality time. I enjoy running errands with my loved ones, hearing about their day or just being in their presence while we each do our own thing.

Sexual preferences: I'm inexperienced in this department, but I do know I enjoy kneeling, whimpering men in bondage. I've been looking to get into shibari with the right person.

Location: I'm starting graduate school in Jan 2025, so I'll be Singapore for the next 4 years and hopefully stay on after that. I'm not looking for an online-only or LDR and unfortunately I'm not in a financial position to relocate anyone :(

What I offer

An intelligent and nurturing woman who will take the lead in the relationship, make most of the decisions and will put in the work to make you feel cherished and respected. You will have a listening ear, a considerate companion, and receive plenty of headpats, forehead kisses and love letters.

About You

Age: You are between 21 and 26 years old. I'm open to older men, but dating anyone younger than 21 will be too uncomfortable for me.

Dealbreakers: Consumption of recreational drugs, smoking/vaping (I will be expecting you to quit), gambling (CNY home gambling not included), heavy drinking.

Appearance: I have a preference for clean-shaven men with soft facial features of at least my height (5'1") and  skinny to average build. Queer men, twinks and femboys are very much welcomed. I believe that mutual attraction is important, so I hope we can exchange sfw pictures or video chat.

Attractive Qualities: Intelligence, curiosity, kindness, affectionate, passionate about their interests.

Hobbies/interests: You have a few nerdy/geeky interests. It'd be nice if you share some of my interests, but I'd enjoy hearing you geek out about almost anything (even if it's a sport, as there are a lot of technical aspects to some sports).

Domestic skills: Ideally, you have some experience living away from your parents and enjoy running your own house. At the minimum, you enjoy cooking and beautifying your living spaces (laundry and cleaning are a chore and I'm not expecting a house maid). Bonus points if you enjoy baking. I will happily eat all your creations! :-)

Thank you for reading to the end! I'm looking to date to marry, as such, I'm not interested in casual relationships or situationships. If you're looking for a life partner as well and think we'd make a good match, please drop me a dm!