Hey all! Iām somebody who realised a long time ago that traditional gendered relationship dynamics donāt work for me- I donāt find the idea of prowling around a bar, buying women drinks, and trying stupid pickup lines on them remotely appealing. In fact, Iād much rather be the one hearing the stupid pickup lines. Both physically and personality-wise, I lean far more feminine than the average man: I have shoulder length brown hair, shave both my face and body, paint my nails, moisturise, generally carry myself more delicately, and enjoy wearing skirts sometimes. Iām also on the shorter side, at around 5ā6. Iām rather emotionally expressive, and try to be a caring, nurturing presence in the life of my partner. Iāll happily listen to my darlingās problems, offer cuddles when theyāre sad, give shoulder massages, and so forth, while being openly emotionally available myself. Iāll cry openly at films that affect me, and ask for cuddles when Iām feeling blue.
In turn, assertive women who arenāt afraid to take the lead in the relationship really appeal to me. I love both feminine women, and more outwardly butch ones, but certain indicators of you being the āmanā in the relationship are something that really resonate with me; putting an arm around my shoulder in public, holding the door for me, pulling me in for kisses whenever you want, placing orders for us at restaurants, handing me your jacket if I start getting cold, picking out clothes youād like me to wear, maybe even being a little possessive at times? Once weāve become a little familiar with each other, slightly condescending nicknames (ie. princess) are preferred, lol. But of course, I donāt expect my partner to be a clump of stone who performs conventional masculinity at all times! First and foremost Iād like a real relationship, where we mutually respect and support each other.
Personality-wise, Iām outwardly rather nerdy, shy, and introverted. With people that Iām close to though, Iām generally very bubbly and chatty, with a good sense of humour IMO. Iām generally rather indoorsy, enjoying reading (mostly nonfiction), watching TV/documentaries, and gaming. However, Iām by no means a total shut-in; Iāll happily go for long walks in nature, or visit museums, or historical landmarks with you. I adore long, aimless walks in the sun! I definitely benefit from somebody who is a little more extroverted than myself, who can take a leadership role and bring me out of my shell. I graduated from university in July, and am currently looking for employment while living with my friend.
My main requirement for prospective partners is that you live in the UK; super long-distance doesnāt personally work for me. Iām currently based in Glasgow, but I definitely donāt mind taking the train to see you, as long as the travel time isnāt more than five hours or so, as Iād like to be able to see you regularly for cuddles. I donāt personally want to date anyone younger than 21, but I donāt mind if youāre older than me. We should have compatible values, so no right-wingers, bigots, or anybody involved with the military or police please. Iām also submissive in the bedroom, and would prefer somebody complimentary.
Most importantly,Ā please donāt messageĀ if:
- You are another man/femboy.
- You are only looking for platonic friends.
- You are already in an open or polyamorous relationship.
- You are exclusively interested in an online dynamic.
Iām happy to talk online for as long as you need to feel comfortable prior to meeting, but I am ultimately seeking somebody who can cuddle and hold me IRL, either as part of a long-term relationship, or a FWB dynamic. Please save both of us some time and donāt message if thatās a dealbreaker for you!
Please see attached aĀ photoĀ of me (with face obscured) so you have some idea what Iām like. I look forward hearing from you. :3
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