Hello wonderful people! My name is Summer.

DISCLAIMER I am very clear on what I am looking for, which is a monagamous long term relationship dynamic, a partner in crime. This is limited to those in the NYC area. I’ve learned that Online / Long Distance is just not for me personally. I am always open to new friendships and experiences along the way, they’re just not my main focus! Apologies about some vagueness, it is for privacy reasons.

YOU :

• 24-33 (can maybe swing a year or two ish both ways if we REALLY get along)
• Cis female / AFAB
• (100% dominant, I am 500% submissive and wouldn’t be able to satisfy your other needs.
• Might be a bit much to ask but willing to verify sooner or later (I will as well), i’ve been catfished before unfortunately. And while looks aren’t everything, they still matter to me and I wouldn’t want to waste your time.
• Do NOT smoke cigarettes, #1 dealbreaker sorry
• Have a job or at least actively working towards finding one
• Sense of humor, my type of humor is roasting tf out of each other and ideally yours as well. Not always but yeah
• Are into role reversal and/or a female led relationship (Not a total dealbreaker)
• Play PC games, it is a huge part of my life that I would love to share with you together. (Not a total dealbreaker)
• Enjoy me being needy and clingy, I control and it keep it respectful but it’s awesome if it’s welcomed. (Not a total deal breaker)

ABOUT

• 30 year old Asian male (AMAB).
• Very tiny and petite (twink vibe).
• Very into Role Reversal, aspiring house husband / trophy husband! 💖 (think passenger princess, little spoon, me being baby in the relationship, buying me flowers 😳)
• hopeless romantic
• Chivalrous, I enjoy being a proper gentleman
• Super needy and clingy while also very respectful of your privacy and space!
• Super super shy it's horrible! If I open up it means we vibe really well.
• Huuuuge gamer (let’s play some games together 👀)
• Values genuineness, honesty, communication, and loyalty.
• Simpiest of the simps 😎
• Honestly just love having a genuine conversation and meeting really cool / fun people whether that's online or IRL.

HOBBIES & INTERESTS

• PC gaming (ask me what games!)
• Playing some sports
• Travelling
• Board games
• Indoor group settings
• Live music
• Cute dates
• Binging TV shows
• Cuddling all day
• Doing all your chores in a maid outfit
• Waiting on my knees at the door to remove your shoes and kiss your feet
• Holding hands everywhere

Kinky Stuff

• Pure 1000% submissive with no dominant bone in my body. When I began exploring myself more and discovered the submissive side in me, I never turned back even one bit.
• Into almost all aspects of gentle femdom, but also a huge slut and into many many devious things that you can learn about if you would be so curious. I love even just talking about kink and/or sharing our own experiences/interests. Being hidden from my personal life, I love having an outlet for it through new friends and hearing about everyone else's stories as well.
• Very much a service submissive. I absolutely love being helpful in both sexual and non sexual ways and being praised for it. Just love being of use in any way that I can.
• Between a novice and an intermediate, I've had a few dynamics online. I began exploring the local scene a few years back very slowly at my own pace. Attending workshops, munches, even play parties as well. It's been a wonderful way of exploring the community and exploring myself as well.

Favorites

• Feet completely control my life and it is not even CLOSE! Everything about it, I especially love foot worship and being a footstool!
• All forms of orgasm control, I love giving up ownership of my own cock. Being told when I can and can’t touch or cum. Or even not having control of how i cum? Locking me up for 2 weeks and mercilessly teasing me? Unlocking me just to edge and lock me up again or ruin my orgasm? 😵‍💫😵‍💫
• Prostate play, oh how this makes me feel so slutty and I love it! Plugs, vibrating plugs, fingering, PEGGING? 🤔 (I haven't been pegged yet, but I know it'll be worth the wait).
• I love the ownership aspect of petplay. Wearing a collar and a leash, being pulled around while I crawl. I'll work my ass off for some headpats 😤
• Into a lot of humiliating and degrading stuff, literally the personality of "don't bully me i'll cum". Especially love affectionate/loving humiliation, I mean come on that's just chef's kiss.
• Tasks, tasks, tasks! The service sub in me is dying to be useful and help you with both sexual and non sexual needs. Errands? Sending proof of what I ate? Foot massage and a bath? Chores? Let me clean your whole house, ahh!!!
• CFNM, wow I love how vulnerable it makes me feel and powerful it makes them feel! Lovely lovely kink!
• Impact play / CBT : I love being spanked, or even spanking myself! Choking and face slapping, sign me up! Light to medium CBT is fun, the pain isn't that fun but how weak and powerless it makes me feel and seeing their face light up as they squeeze or kick my balls wowie its lovely!
• Some feminization, I like the humiliation aspect of it and just feeling feminine in general. Wearing lace panties, thugh high socks and or cleaning the house in my maid outfit.
• So, so many more but you can always ask if you'd like to know!

This was maybe too much about me but hey, thank you for reading and looking forward to anyone that reaches out! 💖