I'm a casual masc-presenting male who's personality leans more feminine. I'm still someone who goes after what they want, but it's not out of a sense of being masc, but moreso my mindset. If I want something, it's only fair I make the effort to go get it, weather it be my career or education.

I'm someone who naturally likes to be the more cooperative one and follow your lead. That doesn't mean I want you to make all the decisions. I'd like you to make most of the decisions but I want you to do it because you like being in that position. I don't want you to feel like you need to make almost every decision, I understand how draining that it. I'll make suggestions, if you ask me to find something I'll put in the work and complete that task. I'm looking for a relationship where we collaborate with each other whilst living our lives independently.

Who are you, my ideal match?

I don't find the masc aesthetic attractive personally. I don't mind my ideal partner wearing pants and shirts, but I still like the feminine aesthetic which can include wearing dresses. I'm looking for someone who is the gentle take-charge type in personality in public and inside the bedroom.

My interests: I like to play video games, take long walks outside, go to restaurants together, plan picnics, board games, anime, etc. I also like to write my own stories where I get to express myself.

My values: I highly value self-awareness, mindfulness, and living authentically. These aren't things I'm just saying for the hell of it. I value self-awareness because I want to get clear on who I actually am rather than who I wish myself to be, I value mindfulness as I want to be considerate about my feelings and the feelings of those around me when responding to them, and I value living authentically because it's already hard enough trying to be yourself in a world that doesn't accept you for who you are. Making choices that brings you close to living authentically is very important.

I hope to meet my potential S.O here. Fingers crossed!