Hiya :)

I stumbled across r/RoleReversal some years ago, no doubt by clicking over from one of the femdom-related subreddits. This triggered a near instant discovery that many of my kinks were the direct result of being burned by societally-enforced gender roles/norms, which was... disorienting but rad. Maybe you have a similar story?

qualities

• appearance: masc of center ¹
• personality: middle of the spectrum
• politically left-leaning
• detail-oriented, socially awkward engineer type
• queer, or some stage of bi-curious
• addicted to making you laugh once I figure out what makes you tick
• hobbyist musician, professional programmer
• sex positive, GGG, perv, somewhat kinky
• raised uber religious, atheist for 10 years

If I'm comfortable with you, some level of fluidity is my jam, especially with flirting: call me handsome tonight and pretty ² tomorrow morning. I'll swoon both times.

I'm not sharing my face publicly, so here's the next best thing: a picture with r/gonemild-ish levels of lewdness: https://imgur.com/6i6QfXS

affinities

• my friends <3
• cheez-its, mexican food, cucumber water, salads with kale and walnuts in them
• movies that are funny or weird or good storytelling or just plain spectacle
• estate sales
• music made-for/made-by anxious people
• good lighting
• concept albums
• Sam Pink
• hiking, camping
• the band Hop Along
• cooking
• math rock, prog rock, and other nerdy, overly indulgent arts
• Tim Robinson
• doing a crossword puzzle together
• TV: X-Files, King of the Hill, uber-quotable 00's comedies like Community and 30 Rock

third section

I don't have a singular "type" and don't care how fem/masc you are, what pronouns you use, or anything like that. If I am into you, I'm into you, and I just want you to be yourself with no expectations.

I'm not totally sure what I'm looking for. I got out of a long-term relationship kinda recently, and I don't want to go right back into another one. That said, I'd love to meet you if anything here resonated. Tell me about yourself! Maybe nothing will come of it. Maybe we'll commiserate. Maybe we'll sow seeds that we can harvest later.

Hope to hear from ya!

1: I keep buying shorter, tighter shorts every summer though... maybe I'm just slutty

2: okay, so for whatever reason the more feminine pet names/terms of endearment are like absolute crack to me. Do what you will with that knowledge