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So what I'm looking for is kind of specific and I realize my chances of finding it are low but I figure it's worth a shot. So here it goes...

Like the title says I am a Christian and it's a very important part of my life. I am also more masculine than you might expect from someone looking for an rr relationship. Even though I appear a certain way and still enjoy many masculine aspects of life I lack the typical drive in other men to go out and work a ton of hours and provide financially the way that is required with the cost of living nowadays. If I could have my ideal life it would be staying at home and taking care of the house. I would love to provide for my future family by cleaning the house, cooking, doing repairs around the house/property, raising our kids, and anything else that you requested during the week. Now with that being said I am not against working part-time but I just don't want work outside of the home to be my whole life. I would love to meet a woman who has a provider mindset and has that ambition to go out and work hard for us and come home at the end of a long day and let me take care of you. I would love to have a hot meal waiting for you and anything else you desire. I've always liked the idea of being a househusband to a strong woman. You don't have to be rich though, I'm not looking for a sugar mama, I want to contribute by making sure you don't have to come home from work to more work. You deserve a clean home, well kept yard and property, home cooked meals, someone to greet you at the door and to make sure you know you're appreciated! This is how I want to spend my days, making sure your home life is as pleasant as possible. I also want to exercise as much as possible to maintain a healthy body for your enjoyment.

As a Christian, one role I want to maintain leadership in is our spiritual life. I want to be the spiritual head of household. This takes nothing away from you being the provider and financial leader of our family. I believe in maintaining the order God lays out for us in scripture with Him at the top and the husband under him and then wife and then children. I don't believe this contradicts you being the provider of our family at all. What it means is when faith dilemmas or spiritual questions arise I would like you to come to me first so we can discuss and figure things out. I believe the man's role is to give guidance and leadership and I think that recognizing when a woman is a better provider than you and giving her that title and taking on the homemaker title for yourself fits this belief. A man should recognize strengths and weaknesses in his family unit and move forward accordingly making sure everything works as well as it can.

There are a couple of common sexual things in the rr community that I don't wish to participate in and I'll mention them here in case they are deal breakers. One is wearing women's clothing and the other is pegging or anything similar. However if you are more dominant in the bedroom I am fine with that as long as you can do so without the things I mentioned.

Some other things about me -

• Virgin. Waiting for marriage.
• Caucasian
• Short dark blonde hair with short reddish beard.
• 6ft 2in tall
• I love animals, love reading, watching old movies, being outdoors, old cars.

About you: age isn't important to me although it would be nice to have kids. I would like to meet someone the same race as me so white which includes white latinas, etc. Christian. A provider mindset. I am also only looking for women that were born female and still identify as female so no non binary or anyone that has transitioned. Sorry if this description doesn't fit you it's just my personal preference.

I live in NC currently and would honestly love to live somewhere nearby in the future but of course we can discuss this more. I know it's a lot to ask.

We can exchange photos to see if there is mutual attraction.

I'm a little introverted when it comes to phone calls or video calls. So please don't pressure me too much on that stuff. Let me build my nerves up lol I know it's weird but it's a specific hangup I have.

Obviously there is no way to mention every detail in a post like this but we can discuss anything you would like in further detail.

Anyway if this interested you at all please message me! It's probably an impossible search but who knows maybe the one is reading this right now. 😉