29 [M4F] Seeking Genuine LTR/FLR in #NYC #IRL

29 [M4F] Seeking Genuine LTR/FLR in #NYC

To be blunt and not waste anyone’s time, I am very clear on what I am looking for :

A mongamous long term IRL relationship/dynamic, ideally both. I only seek a partner that is local, due to the fact that I develop strong feelings way too easily and cannot do online dynamics anymore and i’ve learned that I’m simply not built for a long distance relationship personally.

I am ALWAYS open to friends along the way (Online or IRL), if that is just pure friendship or if it leads into platonic fun like i’ve had in the past that is okay it’s just not really my priority.

Ideally you’d be willing to send a photo with your message and be willing to verify sooner or later. Attraction isn’t everything to me but it still matters to me, so I’d rather not waste your time. Also I have been catfished, hence the verification request. I will return your initial message with a photo as well and verify if requested.

Preferences

• 25-30 years old, can go up to 2 years under/over
• AFAB
• Must be a local in NYC
• Any height, you could be 4’11 or 6’11
• Prefer someone in shape or fit, wouldn’t mind if you’re a muscle mommy 🤭 don’t have anything against plus size or obese people, just not my preference!
• Preferably have a career or working towards it, i don’t mind unemployment as long as you have goals and are actively working towards them
• Ideally you do game, it is a big part of my life and would love to be able to play together and introduce to my friends
• Pure dominant, I am a pure submissive and would hate not being able to satisfy your submissive side. Whether this is outside or inside of the bedroom dominance, I am okay with either but I believe I’d prefer a 24/7 dynamic
• If you talk a lot in person we would mesh well because I am more quiet and reserved and it balances out from my experience

[SFW] Stats and traits

• 29 years old
• East Asian
• Very tiny and petite
• Very RR and into a female led relationship
• Kind of a femboy sometimes?
• VERY (Emphasis on this particular ‘very’ as it is in caps lock) needy and clingy. Will I want to talk to you as much as possible and seek attention? Yes. Will I also understand that we are humans and have our own lives but also sometimes just need time and privacy? Yes. I also understand some people aren’t into this, or are bothered by it so if you are one of those people it might not work. I am very understanding and aware of boundaries and space but I can only contain my natural self so much if you are really against that behavior.
• Very shy in general, will open up quickly if I genuinely vibe with you
• Rambles a lot, will apologize for rambling and apologize for apologizing too much
• Big gamer so you’ll find me at home very often (I do still go out and work too)
• Open to talking to you about my profession if you ask!
• Hobbies include gaming, some sports, arts, travelling, exploring, binging TV shows
• Enjoy staying in for a cozy cuddly night over going out to the club, but would still enjoy going out on many cute dates and exploring!

[NSFW]

• A pure submissive without a dominant bone in his body, I’ve tried being dominant in the past cus that’s what society molded my mind to believe I needed to be. When I explored and discovered submissiveness, I never turned back and the thought of it is a huge turn off.
• Into almost all gentle aspects of femdom, but also a huge slut and into very devious things that you can learn about if you’re curious.
• Very much a service submissive! I love being helpful in anyway sexual and non sexual and being praised for it.
• Between a novice and an intermediate in kink, I’ve explored a bunch online but don’t have much experience IRL. I’ve only had a few online dynamics and i’ve been slowly exploring local events on Fetlife for the past 2 years. It’s been a very nice way to explore the community more, and explore myself as well.
• Own a good amount of toys and props, yes I own a maid outfit and yes I will wear it while I clean your house or worship you. Maybe I’ll wear it all the time cus it’s so fun and I love wearing it!

As for kinks I’d like to leave it up to imagination and for us to learn each other’s kinks as we genuinely get to know each other. But I understand it’ll help out a lot to see if we share common interests so I’ll share a little and spare some of my favorites just because I have that many 😆

• Feet completely control my life and it is not close, everything about it makes it my TOP kink 😵‍💫😵‍💫
• All forms of orgasm control, I love being able to surrender all rights to my own cock to my owner. Not being able to cum or even touch without permission, chastity punishment? 😮‍💨 Worked me up for or 2 weeks just to ruin me? Constantly teasing and denying me just to keep me on edge and see how much of a needy mess I can become? Sign me up 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨
• Petplay but mostly just the ownership aspect, although I love wearing a leash and a collar (I put bells on my collar). And I’d be damned if I didn’t enjoy headpats 💖
• Prostate play / pegging is also huge (haven’t been pegged yet 👀). Something about it makes me feel so vulnerable and I love it. Also own a few remote controlled toys 🤭
• Into a lot of humiliating and degrading stuff, literally the personality of “don’t bully me i’ll cum” also loving humiliation is very cool 😎
• Tasks, tasks, tasks! The service sub in me is dying to be useful and help you with any sexual and non sexual needs. Whether it’s errands or sending proof of what I ate and drank today, or just to tease me or entertain you, I love to feel that I am doing something for you and being helpful 🤩😇

Limits : Blood, scat, permanent stuff, ageplay

OH BOY did I say a little? See how fast that rambling happens? Sorry! Don’t worry, there is much much more to learn about me.

Hopefully this gives you a good idea of what I am like and what I am looking for without giving away too much! I absolutely love the talking stage and just staying up all night getting to know each other, going to sleep still thinking about our chats, waking up and immediately texting you! There goes that clingy side of me 🥴

Thank you so much for your time! I am getting out of here before I drop ten more paragraphs.