Hello precious subs, and welcome to my post! Recent disappointments have brought me back to Reddit - hoping for more success this time.

TL;DR - I’m a bbw gentle domme looking for a FLR with good communication, openness, and vulnerability. Someone who is into books and bedroom antics in equal measure. And someone who isn’t afraid to let me take up space.

To me, being a gentle domme is about having you submit to me because of what I and our dynamic mean to you, not what I do to you. I want you to desire me because my pleasure is at the top of your head at all times, not because you don’t want to be punished for disobedience. I want to encourage you, teach you, and let you be my partner as I take the lead - both inside and outside the bedroom.

About me: I’m 36, a true hourglass bbw, 6ft tall, long brown hair and brown eyes. I love my body and I’d want you to love it too - every curve. It’s where I find my power. I am unabashedly myself, both inside and out. Extremely educated - in fact, not opposed to using my academic title in bed 😏 an intellectual, a lover of arts and culture, stomps through muddy forests and fields, gigs where I can dance like a fool to music that makes me feel alive, and long discussions with people about what they love and why they love it.

About you: Utterly unafraid to be who you are and want what you want. An understanding that life is to be lived, not observed or scheduled for the weekend. You find power in kink and not shame; strength in embracing pleasure and not fear. Find pleasure in the subversiveness of the female domme/male sub dynamic, particularly with a woman who doesn’t fit the societal cage of thinness and beauty. I have a preference for younger, taller men because the power dynamic feels even more distinct and subversive (but this is absolutely in no way a deal-breaker). I want to mould you to what I desire. But equally, I need you to be a fully-formed thing - someone who is aware of who they are and want to join me on this path.

Piqued your interest? Send me a note with what you liked about my post, what you’re looking for, and a photo. Not interested in someone online - I need that IRL connection, which means I need you to be London-based or accessible.

I want a relationship, not just a hookup. Could it be you?

xx