I hate writing these because I know I'm always going to leave something out, then immediately remember right after posting. Bear with me here (I have ADHD, so there's a fact about me to start off with). I know I mentioned Tinder in the title and it would be great to find someone I click with, but honestly I'd still be just as happy if I ended up finding friends as well. It's hard to talk about this stuff and usually if it is within the pop culture sphere it feels very fetishistic. I know for some it is, but to me it's as natural as a gender confirming hetero relationship. I don't really like the labels like domme/etc because it feels like a role (ignoring the sub's name) whereas I'm a real human woman who is just a bit gender non conforming.

I think someone who is sensitive and kind is really important to me, and someone whom I can provide comfort and trust for is something I've always looked forward to when it comes to relationships. I have some baggage involving past relationships but most of us do, lol, so I feel like trust with vulnerability is practically my fetish. I'm quite sensitive but I tend to come off cold/unemotional to most people, so letting my hair down with someone without feeling self conscious would be, idk, nice? I don't have a 'type' but I've always gravitated to guys on the spectrum (I'm kind of kidding but also kind of not). What I mean is guys who are quiet/shy/a bit more reserved, typically pretty nerdy. Brunette Taller the better but I'm not that picky, as long as we click. Plus everyone's taller than me anyway.

I'm 25, 159 cm (160 on a good day) with a slim/curvy-ish build, have long dark hair and brown eyes (and glasses, I am a poor soul who has to pay to see). I'm fine to exchange photos once we talk a bit, I'm not very keen on doing that immediately right away but I'm also a bit fucked in the head and would much rather send pics showing my body rather than my face lol. Appearance wise, I tend to dress a bit in the middle, some days a bit more feminine, other days leaning the other way (a bit futch? lol).

I love watching weird/horror movies (think Titane, Skinamarink, May, etc). I listen to just about anything but some favorites range from Deftones to Fleetwood Mac to Death Grips. I don't game much but I like watching others play (and sometimes fall asleep watching).

As a disclaimer I should mention I deal with depression - not very sexy, I know, but usually pretending like I don't kind of bites me in the ass so might as well get it out of the way. If I disappear, I'm fighting demons/closing a portal, not ghosting. That and a 40 hour work week reduces me to a thing that only sleeps, eats and avoids messages on teams. I joke that I'm basically a stereotypical emotionally unavailable boyfriend with F cups (obviously I'm not at all like that, I just have a weird sense of humor <3). Apart from that I'm delightful. Personality wise, I'm an INTP if that means anything, a bit more of a black cat (or raccoon, depending on how disorganized I am).

I would really love to talk and get to know someone here, see how it goes - friends or otherwise.

Also this is just my preference, I'm not very into femboys or men who crossdress frequently (I like it in tiny doses but it's not something I've come to experiment much with yet anyway). Also not obsessed with facial hair. Plenty of women are into all those things but it's just not my cup of tea. Ages around 22-29. Also for the love of god, don't message me behind your partner's back!!

Anyway, I ramble a lot so I hope I was able to be both concise and not leave anything out - send me a silly/fun fact about yourself so I know you read the whole post please!

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