Okay, so the title is a little facetious, but also true! I'm a recent History graduate, based in Durham, who is a little on the conventionally feminine side, both physically and personality-wise. I grow my hair long, like to stay shaved, make sure to moisturise, paint my nails, occasionally wear skirts, carry myself quite delicately, etc. I'm also quite sensitive, and like to be something of a nurturing presence for the people I'm close to; listening to my sweetheart's problems, giving cuddles and stroking their hair when they're sad, crying openly when something affects me, giving massages, just generally being emotionally available and open in love.

In turn, I absolutely adore women with some masculine energy. This doesn't necessarily mean you have to be physically butch. Outwardly feminine women are gorgeous too! But, certain indicators of you being the "man" (in a conventional sense) are something I really respond to; carrying yourself with a certain confidence, making small chivalrous gestures (like holding the door), placing orders for us at restaurants, letting me hold onto your arm in public, putting an arm around my shoulder, spontaneously pulling me in for kisses, etc. This can even extend to you getting slightly possessive/controlling tbh, within healthy limits, eg. picking clothes you'd like me to wear. Even though being a 1950s househusband obviously isn't economically viable, in the long term I'd very much like a partner who is a clear leader in the relationship, and who can make me feel like their princess occasionally.

Physically, I'm about 5'6 and white, with long brown hair and brown eyes. I've got an average build- not enormously toned yet, but certainly not overweight. I've got no facial hair (obviously), and some kinda thicc thighs, haha. I'm somewhat introverted, greatly enjoying reading my books, watching films, TV and documentaries together, etc. But I'm certainly not averse to some outdoorsy activities either; I love visiting museums, historical sites, and just chilling in nature together generally. Long walks in the sun are my favourite! I can also be quite sickly-sweet, be warned, and physically I'm very affectionate. I've only very recently graduated, so no job yet, but I'm hoping to get employment while living in Glasgow soon, and have a chill year. Happy to share pictures of myself after we've spoken for a little bit.

In terms of what my requirements are, I'd say be older than 21, since I don't want to date somebody much younger than me. But it's not necessarily a problem if you're older than me; I'm very open to dating somebody a little more mature. Apart from that, a woman who lives in the UK would be my main request. I'm fine with taking the train to see you, but flying to another country is too long-distance for my liking. Also, we should have compatible values, so no bigots or right-wingers please, nor anybody involved with the police or military.

Finally, I feel the need to confess that I'm quite submissive sexually, and would love somebody who is compatible on this front. I love a partner who is more sexually forward and proactive, whereas I'm more sexually reactive to your needs. I love satisfying my partners desires, and in turn feeling desirable. Wearing pretty lingerie that you picked out for me in the bedroom, providing oral whenever you request it, just generally making you happy and getting praised, while also feeling hungered after and objectified really fulfil me.

If you've read this far, thank you, and please don't be shy about messaging if you're in the UK! :)