What I'm Looking For

Hi there! You've caught one nerdy soft boi seeking a monogamous LTR. I post here occasionally due to the fact that this subreddit honestly feels more genuine than most other dating spaces. I'm Scott, a 27 year old guy in Ontario in the GTA. I've dabbled a little bit with a Role Reversal dynamic and it always feels way more wholesome than my dating life with traditional gender roles, plus I haven't had much luck dating in a traditional dynamic anyway. So here I find myself posting in this sub to be someone's sub in case the stars align!

I'm a shy and awkward subby guy that melts at the idea of a soft domme calling me good boy. A strong protective gf with similar nerdy interests to bond over is ideally what I'm looking for here, with a bit of gentle dominant kinky-ness sprinkled in. I'm open to a more "switchy" equally led kind of relationship too.

In more memey and sappy terms, I would call myself a guy with laid back and cute cat boy energy. :3 Hold me in your arms, keep me safe, and I'll do the same for you with the exchange of kisses, cuddles, and headpats. ♥ If you're seeking an introverted, nerdy, and subby bf to watch stuff or game with I might be the guy for you.

(Even if this post is old btw, I will still be looking unless I otherwise edit or remove it)

About Me

Appearance:

• 5'8, Thin, White, Dark blue eyes with glasses when going out, Medium-long length hair waiting for someone to run their fingers through it :)
• Here's a couple cute selfies
• I'm somewhat skinny (a bit under 130 lbs last I checked) and I do exercise a bit
• I also have a somewhat deep voice

Main Hobbies:

• Gaming, especially with roguelikes, sandbox games, jrpgs, and a lot of Nintendo stuff
  • I've been into indie horror with Lethal Company and Content Warning lately, replaying og FF7, and I'm looking forward to the TTYD remake
• Watching TV shows, namely animated stuff or anime
  • Lately I've been watching Sailor Moon, The Boys, and got really into Hazbin Hotel
• Occasionally reading manga
• Trying to get more into cooking (10/10 peak house husband material in the making)
• Developing indie games
• I walk daily and would be down for the occasional hike here and there

Yeah I'm a gamer and a bit of a weeb lol. There'll be a giant list of specific interests near the end of this post.

Occupation: Typically a Mobile & Web Developer (layoffs happened though, so I'm mostly job searching atm. Will totally take a job as a house husband in the meantime lol)

Compatibility Things

My Preferred Age Range: Let's go for an range of 20-33? The closer to my age the better.

My Type:

• Nerdy girls, tomboys, or feminine girls
• Not crazy picky physically as long as you are decently healthy (a little bit underweight or a bit overweight should be fine)
• Tall or smol, all heights are welcome!
• Obviously being one who will claim me, pin me down, and make out with me is a plus

Your Type: Skinny, nerdy, laid back, memey, and slightly awkward introverted guys I'd hope. :)

I'd also hope you're cool with sharing some photos of yourself early on like I did above. Show me your pretty face! 🥰 If you're not cool with that right away, describing your appearance at first works.

Pets: I think I'm more a cat person. My family has 3 lovely black cats. We also used to have 2 cute dogs, so doggos can be great too.

No Kids: I don't want kids. Child free life all the way.

Location:

• Ontario, Canada (The GTA, about 1 hour on the go train away from Toronto)
• Ideally if I'm lucky you'd be in Ontario and we'd spend a bit of time virtually together and then date in person.
• If you're not in Ontario, I've done long distance before and don't mind it if we click super well, we're both serious about things, will meet in person at the right time, and of course communicate super well.
• I don't plan to move out of Canada in the long run though, so you better be in Canada as well! (Or you coincidentally are moving to Canada soon and staying there.)

Libido / Intimacy:

• In case it matters to someone, I have a libido that I'd act on like once a week?
• Not directly libido related but I got pelvic floor problems that make it a bit harder than usual to orgasm, and I also might have a slight bit of soreness after one. I still do it but it's something I got to work around with physiotherapy and other means.
• I got a few kinks but nothing too crazy. Stuff like mommy dom, feet, abs, lite bondage, or playful possessiveness. I'm open to exploring stuff as long as it's not rough. ;)
• Also I'll desire all the cuddles ♥

List Of Interests

Shared hobbies are how I fall for someone pretty quickly. I'm a fully fledged redditor nerd™ that wants someone who would either call themselves a gamer, an animation lover, a frequent enjoyer of anime/manga, or all of the above? ;)

I'm not looking for a perfect overlap here, but if you find yourself nerding out to these kinds of things we might be a pretty good fit:

TV Shows:

• Animated Plot Driven: Steven Universe, Bojack Horseman, The Owl House, Infinity Train, Final Space, Amphibia, The Dragon Prince, ATLA, Gravity Falls, Adventure Time, Hazbin Hotel
• Animated Comedies: Rick and Morty, Futurama, Spongebob, DHMIS
• Web Series: RWBY, Digital Circus
• Live Action: The Umbrella Academy, The Mandalorian, The Boys

Gaming:

• Nintendo: Mario, Zelda, Kirby, Animal Crossing, Smash Bros, Fire Emblem, Metroid, Pikmin
• Platformers: Mega Man, Sonic
• Jrpgs: Final Fantasy, Deltarune, Bravely Default, Paper Mario, Earthbound/Mother
• Sand-Box: Minecraft, Terraria
• Roguelikes: The Binding of Isaac, Faster Than Light, Risk Of Rain 2
• FPS: Doom, Borderlands, any kind of co-op stuff. Competitive stuff I'm never too invested in.
• Survival Horror: Resident Evil, Lethal Company, Dead By Daylight
• Battle Royale: Falls Guys (if that even counts lol)
• MMOs: Don't play them much anymore but as a kid I played a lot of Toontown, Roblox, Spiral Knights, Runescape, etc.

Anime / Manga:

• Anime: Hunter x Hunter, Dragon Ball, FMA (2003 & Brotherhood), Death Note, Cowboy Bebop, Spy x Family, Chainsaw Man, Jujutsu Kaisen, Sailor Moon, Studio Ghibli Films
• Manga: One Piece, Hunter x Hunter, Dragon Ball Super
• Stuff I Want To Watch/Read: Berserk, Jojo's Bizarre Adventure, Naruto, Evangelion
• Webtoons are also cool though I haven't read many

Other Random Interests:

• Movies: A lot of Pixar, Terminator, Alien, Blade Runner, Star Wars, Bat Man, Spider Man
• Music: EDM, Vaporwave, A bit of rock and metal, OSTs of games & shows
• Memes: Send memes pls
• Outdoorsy Stuff: Would be down to try hiking from time to time

TLDR / Recap Of Who I'm Looking For

• Preferably you're in the age range of 20-33
• You're seeking a serious and monogamous long term relationship
• You have a very strong interest in either gaming, animated shows, anime/manga, or all the above :3
• You're in Ontario or at least in Canada (or happen to be moving to Canada soon)
• You don't want kids
• I wouldn't mind sharing selfies to start if you're comfortable with that (or at least describe your appearance)
• I'm looking for a genuine response about yourself, not a generic "hi" or exclusively femdom focused messages

Conclusion

Ty for reading my wall of bullet points or at least the tldr. If this catches someone's eye then now's your chance to slide into my DMs and date me, and perhaps even claim me as your boy. ;) ✨I'd prefer to start with reddit chat and afterwards I usually use Discord. You can introduce yourself with stuff such as a pic of yourself, any shared or unique interests, and what you're looking for. Or just pile on a huge list of game, tv show, anime, and manga recs if you want lol.