Ok I'm feeling pretty stupid right now as I just spent an hour writing my post and then deleted it as I didn't like the picture and forgot to save. Don't laugh please. Yes I am stupid.

Hey! Thanks for reading my post, so like you (I hope) I'm seeking a role reversal relationship, one where I feel comfortable to express myself and where you feel comfortable in the more dominant role. That being said I would like a fairly equal dynamic most of the time, basically just a normal relationship (maybe FLR) where we support and care for each other but we don't follow the traditional gender roles.

I'll put this early so you don't waste your time, I'm not too into Piv, it can happen but I have to feel comfortable, I feel more natural as the bottom so if you're not into that we probably won't work. Also I'm a little kinky, I'll go into that further towards the end but again I know kink isn't for everyone so just letting you know.

Currently I'm living in Edinburgh but am planning to move back to England (I'm English) with a plan to either study from August or find a new job in London as I am not too happy in mine. I'm seeking something in person so please be within the UK and the nearer the better.

Personality wise I'd say I was quite a peaceful, reserved person but not shy, I mostly like to keep to myself but am friendly and get along with people from all backgrounds pretty well. I have quite a few friends but they almost all live in the South of England (partly why I'm moving back). I'm independent and don't tend to open up to anyone other than my partner, I've not had the best of success with relationships the longest lasting a year and a half but this is mostly due to me not being comfortable in the traditional "man" role. I'm kind generous and playful at times (probably annoying) and have few commitments other than work, this is through choice so I can keep my options open as to where I live/work. However as much as a shock it must be I am not perfect, I tend to get grumpy when I haven't eaten and can get quiet and shut down if I have to socialise for consecutive days.

Physically wise I'm 5'6 (168cm) with a slim physique that is bottom heavy. I've been called tiwnk and Femboy among other things, I'm not overly feminine but I sometimes lean towards that in private (lingerie and stuff) and I like to think I have a slight femboy shape. Here is a selfie of me I suck at taking these so again don't laugh https://imgur.com/a/nMMS0Pa. I've posted ads to Femdom personals before and used a bit more of a provocative picture there so feel free to look at that too.

As for what I'm looking for in a partner I'm pretty flexible. Ideally I want someone kind, fun, clever and confident. Someone who is not afraid to say what they think and doesn't care too much about other peoples opinions. Obviously I'm very attracted to dominant women but they don't have to be overly loud and bossy, it can come in many forms. Physically wise again I don't have any set preferences, I don't care if you're taller than me, skinny, curvy, skin colour or background. My one weakness might be a nice voice but most people tend to dislike their own voice so don't be put off. Also I would prefer a partner who is at least a bit active as I want to go on adventures and I need you to try to keep up a bit. I also like to tease at times especially if I like you so if you can take a bit of gentle ribbing that's a bonus and if you can give back some that's great! I also value honesty and openness, clear communication is important, I don't mind being rejected but please be honest about how you feel. I don't have any expectations and would like to take things slow to start. Oh also (Sorry I keep forgetting to add things so there is a lot of alsos). I'm left wing politically and am not keen on Tories/right wingers/racists/homophobes and the like. It's unlikely you are any of these as most women have more sensible politics but if you are then it probably won't work out.

I have quite a few hobbies and hopefully you do too, I love to learn and try things so if you have any you'd like to teach me please do. Mine are: Trumpet playing, painting, hiking, cycling and just going on adventures in general, a bit of sport, playing games (board and video and I'd like to try DnD one day). I'm also a big film nerd and listen to audiobooks oh and I've always been keen on gardening . I don't have a garden at the moment but I have quite a few house plants and a couple of large terrariums that I think are cool.

As I said earlier I'm a bit kinky, If you're not overly kinky it's not a deal breaker as my priority is to find a partner to do life things with. I'm also more into the softer gentler side of bdsm (mostly) so don't enjoy being shouted at and beaten. Anyway here are some of mine:

- Bondage, blindfolds, gags, collars, etc

- Spanking

- Chastity (maybe long term)

- Light crossdressing (lingerie)

- Pegging and anal play

- Teasing in general

There are probably a few more and I'm open to others. Also I am not sure if this counts as a kink but I love Role reversal physical touch, basically a possessive hand placed on my butt or an arm around my waist.

Well that's all I have to say for now, thanks so much for reading and if you think any of this might suit you please feel free to send me a chat. Happy to answer any questions but if you can't think of anything to say tell me your favourite place you've been or a good film/Tv show you watched recently. Thanks again and hope to hear from you!
(I made sure to write this in a file this time so I didn't make the same mistake, learning)