Hello, I'm a 25-year-old sub hoping to find a serious relationship with a gentle domme.

Infos about me

Appearance wise (open to exchange picture after verifying), I am 5'8, 142 pounds, slim. Dark hair, small brown eyes, east asian, high bridge nose, with jaw line, above average looking, and I've been told I have a really nice ass multiple times!

I'm more of a shy and quiet person at first, so it takes a little bit of time for me to be comfortable with someone, but once I'm kinda out of the shell, I can be a spontaneous and a fun person to be with. My love language for receiving are physical touch and words of affirmation, and giving are acts of service and physical touch.

I wouldn't say I'm smart, but at least above average, so holding intellectual conversations, and think critically wouldn't be an issue at all.
I'm bilingual, I speak English and another language which I'll keep it as a secret for now, find out more about me once we start talking!

I'm located in Southern California, but I want this relationship to start out online first, and see where it goes from there, so anywhere in the US works for me. I'm open to relocate for the right person.

Career wise, I'm currently looking for a job in STEM, but the job market isn't good right now, so it has been slow for me, but the upside is that I got more time to focus on myself!

Hobbies and interests

I like playing single player story rich video games such as rdr2, god of war and I also enjoy playing board games as well! I'm a really curious person and I enjoy learning, Wikipedia is probably one of the website I visit the most, and often spend a lot of time going down rabbit holes and so I have a lot of fun facts! I also enjoy reading, especially topics around political science, philosophy, or history.

Animes and movies are also big interests of mine. I love watching old hollywood movies, from 1930 ~ 1990 (e.g. Casablanca, 12 angry men, Psycho).

I enjoy talking about social issues, I'm fascinated by how every person has a slightly different take on the same thing, probably has a lot to do with your background, and that's really interesting to me. Personally I'm left leaning, but I'm still open for any kind of discussions!

I love trying different kinds of food from different countries! Japanese cuisine is my favorite. I wouldn't say I'm good at cooking, but I do enjoy cooking.

References

Mom(biological): Wow! You're so smart!
Ex: Aw! You're so fucking cute!
Co-worker: What a good boy you are. (This had me blushing at work)
Previous boss: Are you still in bed? I'll have to say, this is quite impressive.

Kinks

I'm more of a dominant person in my everyday life, I tend to take the lead in a group of people. However, I enjoy being the little puppy with my SO, I like to be the little spoon when cuddling, I like to be nurtured, and patted on the head, being called a good boy.

Kink wise, I love being pegged or having my prostate stimulated. I have a prostate massager that I enjoy playing with, but I plan on getting more! Other than that, some of the kinks I have but are not a must are orgasm control, joi, edging, begging, teasing, light humiliation, worshipping, light degradation, teasing, feet. I don't mind exploring the feminine side of me, so I'm open to feminization if that's what you're into. These are just some of the kinks I have on the top of my head. I'm pretty open to explore new kinks that you have. What turns me on a lot is seeing you get turned on by me pushing my boundaries and doing stuff for your likings. I still enjoy PIV sex very much! And I hope you do as well.

I like to take sexy pictures of myself showing my naked body, it'll be a huge plus if you're also into this.

I'm not that experienced in a D/s dynamic, I hope you don't mind educating or guiding me.

Hard limits: Findom, scat, blood, anything illegal or permanent.

About you

I'm not looking for a person that's here to fix my life, I have my life together already. I'm looking for a companion that shares the same value with me. I'm looking for a teammate to explore the world with.

Appearance wise, I'm not into plus size women, it's just not my type, sorry. Hopefully you're in your 20s to early 30s, and a person that's respectful! Yes, I like giving up control to dommes, but I also think respecting each other is important. We are both equal! I'm looking for a person who prefers being a gentle domme (but strict at times) that values aftercare for both of us.

Here's some femdom and role reversal arts that I like. It gives a little insight of the dynamic that I'm looking for in a relationship.

I hope you're an educated person that likes to read and enjoys learning, and at least have your own opinions on most things, such as social problems. I hope we could have healthy debates on these kind of topics.

Lastly I'm looking for a person that's open to share what you think, deep down. And be honest with yourself. A heart to heart connection is what I value most.

I know what I'm looking for is probably too specific, but I'm not in a hurry to find anyone. However, you're free to message me if you only match some of the requirements! Again, I'm open to a lot of things!

I want to build this relationship on top of trust, so verifying is required, hope we could start off by being friends.

I hope you could put some effort into your message as I've poured my heart out for this ad. It'll be really nice if you share what resonates with you the most in this ad!

Talk to you soon!