Hello, I'm a 25-year-old sub hoping to find a serious relationship with a gentle domme.

Infos about me

• Appearance wise, I am 5'8, 142 pounds, slim. Dark hair, small brown eyes, east asian, high bridge nose, with jaw line, above average looking, and I've been told I have a really nice ass multiple times.
  
• I wouldn't say I'm smart, but at least above average. I can hold intellectual conversations, and think critically.
  
• I'm bilingual, I speak both English and Mandarin.
  
• Located in Southern California, but I want this relationship to start out online first, and see where it goes from there, so anywhere in the US works for me, I'm open to relocate for the right person.
  
• I'm currently looking for a job in STEM right now.
  
• I'm quite dominant outside the bedroom, I tend to take the lead in a group of people. However, I'm a submissive in the bedroom, I like to be the little spoon when cuddling, I like to be nurtured, and patted on the head, being called a good boy.
  
• My love language is acts of service and physical touch.
  

Hobbies and interests

• I like playing video games such as league of legends, or other single player story rich games. However, I haven't played for quite a while cause of the stress of finding a job.
  
• I am a really curious person and I enjoy learning, Wikipedia is probably one of the website I visit the most, and often spend a lot of time going down rabbit holes.
  
• Anime and movies, I love watching old movies, from 1930 ~ 2000.
  
• I enjoy talking about politics or social issues, I'm fascinated by how every person has a slightly different take on the same thing, probably has a lot to do with your background, and that's really interesting to me. Personally I'm left leaning, but I'm still open for any kind of discussions!
  
• Food, I love trying different kinds of foods from different countries! Japanese cuisine is my favorite, though. I wouldn't say I'm good at cooking, but I do enjoy cooking.

Kinks

• Enjoying pegging or prostate play is a must, anything regarding anal to be honest, mine or yours. I have a prostate massager that I enjoy playing with, but I plan on getting more!
  
• Gentle femdom, moaning(I moan a lot), orgasm control, joi, edging, begging, teasing, light humiliation, worshipping, light degradation, teasing, feet.
  
• I kind of like to take sexy pictures of myself showing my naked body, it'll be a huge plus if you're also into this.
  
• Recently started liking the thought of wearing lingeries, but I've never tried it before. I'm open to explore the feminine side of me.
  
• I'm pretty open to explore new kinks that you have. What turns me on a lot is seeing you get turned on by me pushing my boundaries and doing stuff for your likings.
  
• I still enjoy PIV sex very much! And I hope you do as well.
  

I'm not that experienced in a D/s dynamic, I hope you don't mind educating or guiding me.

Hard limits: Findom, scat, blood, anything illegal or permanent.

About you

I'm not looking for a person that's here to fix my life, I have my life together already. I'm looking for a companion that shares the same value with me. I'm looking for a teammate to explore the world with.
- Appearance wise, I'm not into plus size women, it's just not my type. Hopefully you're in your 20s to early 30s.
- A person that's respectful. Yes, I like giving up control to dommes, but I also think respecting each other is important. We are both equal!
- A person who prefers being a gentle domme (but strict at times) that values aftercare for both of us.
- A person that's confident, knows what she wants in her life, and is working towards it.
- An educated person that likes to read and enjoys learning, and at least have your own opinions on most things, such as social problems, or politics.
- A person that's open to share what you think, deep down. And be honest with yourself. A heart to heart connection is what I value most.
- A person who matches most of my kinks, but also wants to explore new things with me.
- A person who's open to exchange pictures when we're comfortable.

I know what I'm looking for is probably too specific, but I'm not in a hurry to find anyone. However, you're free to message me if you only match some of the requirements! Again, I'm open to a lot of things!

I want to build this relationship on top of trust, so verifying is required, hope we could start off by being friends.(No face pics before verifying).

I hope you could put some effort into your message as I've poured my heart out for this ad. It'll be really nice if you share what resonates with you the most in this ad!

Talk to you soon!