Hello, I'm a 25-year-old sub in search of a soft domme (friend first) to explore stuff with.
Note: English is not my first language, but I'm still fluent in English.

Infos about me

• Appearance wise, I am 5'8, 142 pound, slim. Dark hair, brown eyes, east Asian with a small eye, high bridge nose, has jaw line, above average, and I've been told I have a really nice ass multiple times.
  
• Located in Southern California, but I want this relationship to start online first, and see where it goes from there.
  
• I'm currently looking for a job in STEM right now, but everything has been slow for me.
  
• I'm quite dominant outside the bedroom, I tend to take the lead in a group of people. However, I'm a submissive in the bedroom, I like to be the little spoon when cuddling, I like to be nurtured, and patted on the head when no one is around.
  
• My love language is physical touch.
  

Hobbies and interest

• I like playing video games such as league of legends, or other single player story rich games. However, I haven't played for quite a while cause of the stress of finding a job.
  
• I am a really curious person, Wikipedia is probably one of the most website I visit, and often spend a lot of time going down the rabbit hole.
  
• Movies, I love watching old movies, from 1930 ~ 2000. But same as video games, stressed out by job searching.
  
• Chess, I started playing chess recently. (I suck though).
  
• I enjoy talking about politics, I'm fascinated by how every person has a slightly different take on the same thing, probably has a lot to do with your background, and that's really interesting to me. Personally I'm left leaning, but I'm still open for any kind of discussions!
  

Kinks

• Pegging or prostate milking is a must, anything regarding anal to be honest, mine or yours. I have a prostate massager that I enjoy playing with, but I plan on getting more!
  
• Gentle femdom, orgasm control, edging, light humiliation, worshipping, light degradation, teasing, feet.
  
• I kind of like to take sexy pictures of myself showing my naked body, it'll be a huge plus if you're also into this.(Only after verifying)
  
• Recently started liking the thought of wearing lingeries, but I've never tried it before. I'm open to explore the feminine side of me.
  
• I'm pretty open to explore new kinks that you have. What turns me on a lot is seeing you get turned on by me pushing my boundaries and doing stuff for your likings. (It's weird, I know...).
  
• I still enjoy PIV sex very much! And I hope you do as well.
  

Hard limits: Scat, blood, anything illegal or permanent.

About you

• A person that's respectful. Yes, I like giving up control to dommes, but I also think respecting each other is important. We are both equal!
  
• A person who prefers being a soft domme (but strict at times) that values aftercare and care for me.
  
• A person that knows what she wants in her life, has a goal, and is working towards it.
  
• Healthy, not overweighted or underweighted.
  
• A person that I can share my submissive side to, I want to talk about what I've explored and want to explore. And same for you, tell me what you want.
  
• An educated person that likes to read, and at least have your own opinions on most things, such as social problems, or politics.
  
• A person that's open to share what you think, deep down. And be honest with yourself. A heart to heart connection is what I value most.
  
• A person that has the same value and ethics as me, but in general, be kind. We can discuss this along the way! (I like to ask questions like "hey, I saw people discussing xxx, what's your thought?")
  
• Hopefully you like the thought of me seeing as a dominant person outside, but deep down, we both know you're the only one that I submit to, the person that I show my vulnerability to.
  
• A person who matches most of my kinks, but also wants to explore new things with me.
  
• A person who's open to exchange pictures when we're comfortable.
  

I know what I'm looking for is probably too specific, but I'm not in a hurry to find anyone. However, you're free to message me if you only match some of the requirements! Again, I'm open to a lot of things!

I want to build this relationship on top of trust, so verifying is required, hope we could start off by being friends.(No face pics before we know each other better).

I hope you could put as much effort into your message as I did in this ad. It'll be really nice if you share what resonates with you the most in this ad!

I'm not into Findom. I will ask for verification, so scammers, don't even bother