Hi everyone, I hope you are all doing well.
I’ve been out of the dating scene for a year or two while working on myself, and now I feel like it's the right time to dive back and meet some new, wonderful, and interesting people.
So let’s start easy with a bit about me.
I am a 24 year old, 185cm, GNC male from the UK. Medium-length extra-soft dark brown hair is paired with brown eyes to match. Pretty average build for my height, maybe leaning on the slender side as I’ve worked really hard over the last few years to achieve a body I'm happy with, although it does seem like I've kept a little cake in the back. I’ve got some pretty strong dark circles under my eyes, although I do sleep a lot—maybe too much—and dimples when I smile.
I do try to look after myself, removing all body and facial hair, although it's a constant battle. I also mess around with subtle makeup, although I'm not very good and I haven't exactly had much practice. If you want a better idea of what I look like, I have some older cosplay photos on my profile, but I am more than happy to share new photos when the time feels right.
I’m fairly different from most of the guys I know; I’m a very soft person, from the way I talk to the things that I enjoy. I like cute things; my room is a pastel pink, and I have a good few Blahajs to my name. My friends all call me the group femboy. I’m not one hundred percent sure if that's the right title for me or if I’m just slowly making my way down a non-binary path, but I definitely consider myself to be GNC.
I am very shy, especially at first, and it can be a lot for people, but once an effort is made, it goes away pretty quick. I am also every so slightly clingy—not in any desperate way, but more like the way puppies are when you give them attention.
Relationship-wise, I am deeply romantic; I’d die for the cutest date nights and giving each other flowers. However, I am also demi, leaning towards asexuality. It takes a lot for me to view someone in that light, and it's still an element of myself I'm discovering bit by bit. I’m also a bit kinky, but who isn’t?
I don't drink or smoke and I dont touch any form of drugs.
As for the things I enjoy, I like gaming; it’s mostly Valorant (although I’m really bad at it) and Helldivers 2 at the moment. Although I'm a pretty picky eater, I really like cooking and baking. I absolutely adore the way people's faces light up when they bite into something I've made, and the bonus is that I look pretty good in an apron. Other hobbies have to be that I enjoy building Lego and watching movies and anime. Oh, and I cosplay; it's really fun, and I honestly wish I did it more often, but I lose focus really easily.
So yeah, that’s more than a little about me, so I guess the next question is,
What am I looking for?
I am looking for someone emotionally mature enough to form a real connection with. I seek someone with good communication skills and the ability to speak what's on their mind. I tend to be attracted to those with more traditionally masculine personalities, the types who know what they want and are willing to go out and take it, those who, I guess, identify more with the name Daddy. A gym buddy could be cool, especially if they are the type who considers the hooded sports bra to be peak lingerie.
I am especially looking for someone who can offer me a guiding hand, someone who can keep me on task with my hobbies and keep me from procrastinating my life away. I know it's a big ask, but I'm sure with just the right few words, I could be right back on task.
I’m open to anyone, no matter how you identify, no matter the colour of your skin, or whether you put milk in the bowl before the cereal, but there are only two things I ask. The first is that you're somewhere between 22 and 35, and the other is that you're looking for a monogamous connection. Bonus points are, of course, available for those who can teach me a bit about makeup and the like, even if you don’t tend to use it yourself.
As for distance, I am at a stage now where I'm ready for life's next big adventure; I’m ready to get out and see something new. As such, I am open to the idea of relocating for the right person, given enough time to really establish that we are both making the right choice.
To conclude
I know I’ve said I'm shy; I haven't lied. Putting myself out here like this is never easy, but for the chance to meet such wonderful people, it’s always worth it, so please, if you feel a connection to any part of what I've written here, please send me either a chat or a message.
You’ve read all about me, so let's talk about you. Please make sure to include whether you’d pick a brownie, cupcake, or cookie when it comes to baked treats, and why.
If I'm a little slow responding, it’s because I'm searching for the right words, but trust me, I will respond.
Thank you for your time.
Have a fantastic day,
And stay safe.
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