First, I have to say I have not been in a role reversal relationship before so I don't exactly know how it's supposed to go. I will say that there are specific things I am looking for in a relationship. I don't know if they exactly fall under role reversal but I know they are what I need in the relationship.

While I am looking for someone who is confident, charismatic, successful, intelligent, and educated I also want them to be emotionally available, empathetic, loving, sweet, and compassionate for me those things are just as important as the first few. I understand that relationships can be difficult and it won't always be easy but I will try my best everyday.

a little about me:

I am 5'0 and black. I have short black hair and brown eyes. I could be considered plus size but not entirely. Physical attraction is important to me but not as important as emotional and mental connection.

While I would prefer that we have similar interest but some different interests are fine. ideally I am seeking someone who is at least 25 and no older than 55. I have had long distance situations before but they tend not to work out so now I am looking for someone who is in the same state or within a five hour drive.

I used to have a higher sex drive but because of things in the past I am not as sexual as I used to be. I would say my sex drive currently from 1 to 10 is at a 5. I do like to cuddle, hold hands, and hug but outside of those things physical touch isn't my favorite. Kissing is ok but is not my favorite thing. My love languages are quality time, acts of service, and words of affirmation. I am also questioning my sexuality as I am attracted to men but have a love and appreciation for women.

I have various hobbies which include reading, traveling, playing board games, watching tv/movies, going to events, watching sports, and going to the beach.

My interests include history, philosophy, art, learning languages, music, fashion, and psychology

For me role reversal in the relationship is about having a similar personality and values as me. I am not looking for a sub or to be a femdom but instead looking for personality traits that are similar to mine and can make for a long happy relationship.

I do prefer to text when getting to know someone and if something develops further I am fine with phone calls or video chats.

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