I’ve reached a point in my life where I am very serious about finding someone, and figured that it may be worth taking a stab in the dark via reddit, so here we go.

About me

I’m 26, fresh out of graduate school with my Master’s degree, and working remotely in a research position. Appearance-wise I am 5’10 with a slim-fit physique, fluffy medium-length hair and blueish greenish eyes. I have a light skin tone and am clean shaven. I will, of course, provide you with pictures in DMs. Outside of work I enjoy walking/running/hiking, watching movies and shows, drawing, golf, and gaming.

Kinks and sexual preferences are something that we can discuss in-depth, but you should know that the kink/sexual aspect is only a small part of what I’m looking for. I want a genuine loving relationship with a compatible partner first and foremost. I am very much into the softer elements of GFD/RR (which I know aren’t exactly the same, but there’s clearly a lot of overlap). Unironically my biggest “kinks” are probably stuff like being pinned won, or being the little spoon. I want a partner who is dominant and controlling but in a very soft and caring way if that makes sense. I can absolutely still accommodate a range of kinks associated with femdom, but I do have red lines, including chastity, scat, cuckolding, and pretty much anything that qualifies as excessively sadomasochistic in nature (CBT, torture, serious injuries etc.)

Please note that I am not at all interested in sexting or hookups.

What I’m looking for

Please be between the ages of 20-29, I am open to a bit of wiggle-room there if you are borderline. I currently live in the Pittsburgh area and would strongly prefer someone who lives nearby, though I know that this may be tough to find. Relocation is technically a possibility in my near future, but I think I would have difficulty building a deep romantic connection purely on a long-distance basis. Be monogamous and single.

Regarding your appearance, naturally I, like everyone else have preferences, not all of which are deal breakers. Physical fitness, tall girls, and short hair are extremely attractive to me in general. I don’t care much about race, eye/hair color, or tattoos/piercings.

If you feel like we would be a good match, feel free to message me with a picture of yourself and a brief introduction.