Hey! Thanks for stopping by! I’m Buskr. It’s a long one so I hope you’re here for the ride.

So I wanted to make this post because it seems like what I’m looking for is just incredibly hard to find. I’ve narrowed down what I want in a relationship and many failed encounters later. I’ve identified what it was that made my previous relationships fail.

I was trying to be someone I wasn’t. a Dom.

When I was younger I thought that’s what I had to be because I’m a guy. But as I’ve gotten older and learned from my mistakes and lessons of not being authentic and true to yourself. that doesn’t have to be the case. At all. So here I am!

A little about me. I’m 31, I’m a firefighter and while a woman with an aura of dominance will have me swooning In And out of the bedroom In my everyday life I’m competent and successful. I’m a firefighter/ EMT A content creator, I tell scary stories on Tik tok and am quickly gaining a large following. I do freelance video editing and UGC content. I’ve got my own car, make enough to live by myself, have good hygiene, I have to work out due to being a firefighter. And I have controlled my pretty Severe ADHD with proper medication. All in all. All of this has made me quite confident in who I am, regulated my Emotions, (that was an issue but have come to learn this was due to undiagnosed ADHD through therapy), and I’ve carved out a pretty decent life for myself. 😁.

But it’s still missing that person I can go to, that amazing woman who is nurturing and provides a guiding force in my life that I absolutely know I can always rely on. There isn’t anything I can’t handle if something happens. But it would be immeasurably wonderful to know that in the event I can’t there’s a mommy behind me cheering me on and is willing to step in or just tell me no, make me sit down, put a capri sun in my hand, and tell me “mommy’s gonna take care of you” and force me to slow down when she sees I’m trying to control things and because of that struggle immensely. (Which is a problem I have) and I eventually want kids and a family.

I need that. I recognize that I can’t do everything alone, and it’s not in my nature to be controlling and Dominant. I’m too kind, good natured, and I don’t perform well in relationships as the one in charge. I can if I’m called upon but it is a struggle. And I might take longer to get things done or come up with the right plan.

I’m 5’8 (a little short) 180lbs. I’ve got muscle but there’s a layer of fat. (It actually helps me retain water when fighting fires) Short brown hair with green eyes. And in the right light they become hazel. I’m a huge nerd! I love fantasy, grimdark, sci-fi, and lovecraftian horror I play video games. And I’m trying to become the next Rod Serling. 😂 And I am strictly monogamous.

Now onto the spicy stuff. Sexually I’d consider myself a bottom, pegging is a favorite kink of mine and a woman who enjoys that as a primary way of sex is really what I’m looking for. It just makes me feel wanted more than anything else. And the feeling of giving that to a special person. Mmmf it makes me melt. For a man to be penetrated. It’s so personal and vulnerable. And I just feel a deep connection from it. I still enjoy vanilla sex as well! But Pegging is beautiful and I love it. Other kinks include but not limited to. Praise, chastity, non permanent marks, bondage, feminization, anal play, fisting, teasing, orgasm denial, overstimulation, spanking, JOI, ANR, CEI, and many others. I’m also open to trying new things as well! If you’re still reading

You Ideally your in the age range of 25-33( that is flexible) Height doesn’t matter ( tall women certainly do hold a special place in my heart) You take care of yourself physically (I’m an active person and would like to be able to share that with some one) Enjoys pegging and the Amazon position as primary way of intercourse. Is more gentle than domineering and mean.

If any of this resonated with you and you’d like to chat please send me a message! I’d be happy to share pictures with verification as long as you’re willing to do the same. And I’d like to start off just getting to know each other as people before talking about any of the kinky stuff. I’m open to relocating as well if things go well. If you managed to read through the whole post. Definitely send me a message you might be the one 🥰

Have a great day!