Hi there!

I'm looking first and foremost for an equal. The reason I marked this as NSFW is simple, I'm looking for a RR relationship, yet I'm also into femdom and going to talk about it later.

But while I might be an currently still inexperienced domme and a generally quite headstrong person, in the end I'm looking for a partner.

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Let me start this with nine facts about me that might already stop you from reading further, since they have caused trouble before:

• Happy to verify/send you a SFW picture of myself down the road. However, I won't be sending any nudes, so any request within the get-to-know phase will be useless and result in me cutting contact. Had to deal with it far to often the first and only other time I posted a personal (years ago, but still)
• As I stated in the title, I'm overweight. Last time I checked 170 cm and edging closer and closer to 100 kg. Since then I started going to the gym, but given the fact that I love well cooked food and have a real sweet tooth it's a slow going. While I'm currently not a person that would willingly hike up a mountain, my weight doesn't stop me from enjoying life
• I'm an agnostic and not a member of any church/religion
• I dislike cooking on a daily basis. I can do a few recipes well, but only because I try not to live off of 49ct instant ramen and frozen pizza. If there's a gathering/special event I don't mind at all and enjoy cooking with friends from time to time, but if you're hell bound on having an often and well cooking girl, then I'm unfortunately not her - Although I'm quite handy with tools and fixing stuff around the house :)
• Staying on the food topic - I'm an omnivore. I tried to be vegetarian, did it for a couple of months, but it's not for me. While I don't eat meat every day, I wouldn't give it up. I don't mind at all if you have, though
• I'm from Baden-Württemberg, it would be great if you were somewhat close by, otherwise the IRL part will be hard in the future, especially since I suck at texting
• Please be within the age frame of 21 - 29
• I don't care one ounce about your weight, as long as it doesn't prevent you from doing basic activities, experiencing different things and sometimes travel with me
• I don't care about your ethnicity or how well you speak German, but I can't imagine leaving my family behind. Since I'm not looking for something short-term, I hope you'll understand that I'm not a match for you if you are planning with moving away from the vicinity of Germany long term

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Still here? Great!

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There are a lot of things we might imagine about a possible future relationship, and I just wrote a whole essay about all kinds of NSFW fantasies/SFW plans I have about what we could do (I'm a closeted romantic, I know).

Now I deleted it all.

Instead, I'm just going to tell you in a basic way a bit more about me and if I've managed to interest you, I could tell you all about it later.

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As you might have already read, I'm 24, currently doing my bachelor's degree at a university and am employed as a working student.

I have a tight group of really close friends but struggle with making new ones. I don't know how people do it - I get along with almost every new person I meet, but how to get from friendly to friends remains a mystery to me. If you found the secret recipe please tell me.

On the other hand I'm fairly organized and self-confident enough to declare myself quite competent and thorough in a variety of things.

Free time wise I started going to the gym, love driving my motorcycle, doing game nights with friends or taking a variety of different kind of (short-)trips to see new places. I'm into rock/metal music and looking forward to the next concert I'm going to.

I'm not really one for discos and big parties. I'd go if you wanted me to, but I'm more than happy to put my phone on a loud setting, be the driver and pick you up no matter the time.

Or you could join me for a card or board game. Hosting an evening with friends, providing food, drinks and Munchkin? Count me in every time.

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Last but not least, the NSFW part.

To put it bluntly, I'm quite inexperienced in regards to both kink and vanilla. But there is a bunch of things I want to try.

Hard limits for me are currently bodily functions, blood, diapers and anything to do with non-consenting third parties,

I have a few softer limits or a couple of things I'm currently not all that interested in, but I'm open to try a lot of things.

What I would love to try on the other hand are pegging, impact play, bondage and a variety of scenes, ranging from softer gentle femdom over freeuse to dark(er) fantasies. Again, these are interests and fantasies, and you do not need to share them. I haven't even tried any of them them yet, so please don't let the last paragraph discourage you from contacting me if everything else so far didn't.

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I can't think of anything else at the moment, but if there are any questions you have, feel free to reach out! (Am I trying to get you into my dm's? ...Maybe)