Hello! My name's Jay, and I'm just a little guy.

I want to leave it at that but I have to be kinda serious.

I'm a reformed, terminally online, NEET. I moved away from my hometown, now living with some distant family members for health reasons and am currently working a boring job to hopefully save up money and either get an apartment with my best friend or get some kind of schooling so that I can get a better paying job. Not really sure what I'm doing with my life, just kinda doing it since everything has been such a whirlwind for me.

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I have been playing the guitar since I was 11 years old, I have always had a passion for many different genres of music ranging from metalcore, to citypop, drum and bass, and even chiptune. I can do low metal growls and sound like Mario going "waaaaaah" in Super Mario 64. I know, I'm kind of a badass.

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I have been too busy to play games like I used to, but I invested an unhealthy amount of time into many different games and I am a big fantasy nerd that grew up playing Pokémon religiously until the 5th generation and WoW on my grandmother's account. Everyday I have the urge to play WoW or Pokémon again but don't really have anyone to play with, and I can't really play solo 24/7 anymore like I did before.



I'm 5'7 (171 cm), and about 145 lbs (65 kg I think). I used to be 190 lbs (86 kg) but through workout and diet I've lost the majority of my weight, still trying to go down a little more though.

I've been single for I think now about 4 years, and have kinda rejected a lot of people because I just never felt that connection with people, and most that I've talked to just wanted a FWB (which I am not interested in). It also doesn't help that I can't drive anywhere to go meet very many people due to my health condition preventing me from driving.

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I love travel, and one day I wish to travel to as many countries as I can, starting with Japan as it's the first country I've really had my eyes on and have really been interested in for years. I want to live as much as I can because I've been in a situation for so long where I have been unable to do anything with my life, and just spent on a computer.

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I take a bit to warm up to people, but when I am with friends I am generally an open book, outgoing, and silly until I get embarrassed. I try my best not to take everything serious and just try to break the ice with people and find common ground. However when I am by myself meeting someone for the first time, I am a little shy and I try my best to overpower it haha.

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I'm hoping to meet someone that doesn't mind me being a submissive person, as all of my relationships I ever had I was expected to be the dominant person at all times when it came to anything. I'd love to have someone I could fall asleep with and remind me that I am safe, even thinking about that makes me slightly emotional lmao.

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I want someone who is willing to take the initiative with starting conversations and doing things together because I've never had a relationship where my partner reached out to me, I've always had to make every single move otherwise we wouldn't even talk.

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I'm not a very NSFW person, but I also say that as someone who is primarily attracted to people I have an emotional attachment to and well, I haven't had an emotional attachment to anyone in a very long time haha so I'm not really sure how to put it.

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If you've read this far and are interested, please message me and tell me about yourself. Even if you're just interested in being friends only, I'd love to meet some like-minded people or just caring individuals in general as I don't really have a lot around me right now.