(i'm not actually like a rat, i just like the meme - im pretty average within adhd disorganization standards, don't worry)

Hi, I go by Val. I’m 5’2/160cm / 50-55kg with brown eyes/hair. I’m growing my hair out atm, it's gotten pretty long. I’m not comfortable showing my face (among other things) right away, but would be open to once we both talk for a bit. I also don't really want to talk about my education/career as it's kind of a stressor for me right now, but I'm happy for you to talk about yours. Boundaries are very important to me, both yours and mine, and I would expect the same from you.

I'm not looking for an exclusive or long term relationship, I just want to have fun and explore since it's much harder to find like minded people irl. Maybe the possibility of meeting irl (after talking for a long time and feeling comfortable enough to agree to) could be fun but for the most part, I'm seeing this as an outlet to explore.

I'm not very specific about 'my type' but I like guys of any height, as long as he's fit (not overweight or overly athletic). I am partial to brunettes and lanky guys though, sue me lol. I find shyness, vulnerability, everything related to that very attractive (I couldn't tell you why), and it makes it feel very rewarding to get guys to admit things they'd otherwise prefer to keep a secret. I'd prefer you to be 22-29. I'm very into nerdy guys (maybe we're into the same things!), especially if they're socially inept lol. My friends who studied computer science complain about socially awkward guys and it would make me fantasise. But these aren't obligatory, just an example. (I also have ADD so I am 100% going to remember a detail I forgot to add here). I also like to tease and make fun, so long as it flows naturally with the conversation. I get very turned off if it feels phony or if it feels like I'm following a script to a bad porn.

Other preferable details would be someone passionate and emotionally intelligent and open (huge plus!!!) and masc presenting. Being able to have an intellectual discussion is also a major plus.

Now with all the boring stuff out of the way, hopefully I haven't missed too many details. Send me a 🍄 emoji in your message to let me know you managed to read through this :-)