I've read a lot of the discussions and looked through a lot of what gets posted here. And to be honest 90% of it is just basic things that any normal person should get to experience, especially in a relationship. They wanna be held, they wanna be cared for, they want to know they matter to someone and someone cares about them. While I do think it's nice they have a place to express their desires and get support I also think it's somewhat sad in a way? so many poor guys fantasizing and wishing they will get to experience what they view as some magical and rare crazy experience but honestly it should be a normal thing in any relationship you're in not just dependent on you finding an rr one.