Seriously. There's tall, muscular men who are sensitive, sweet, and want to receive flowers on Valentine's Day. There's small, feminine women who become family breadwinners and spoil their husband. My supervisor earned more money than her husband and stayed in work while her son became a doctor and her husband retired early.

Role reversal isn't necessarily about men becoming femboys and women becoming tall muscle Mommies. It's about reversing the roles. It's about small, cute women speaking up and socializing while her muscular, yet socially anxious boy hides behind her. It's about the men that care so much about their appearance from their skin to their aesthetic to their hair dating a woman who throws on a dress because she doesn't care to link her clothes with her identity and rolls over to go to work with no makeup on. There's small, sporty dance chicks who go home to cooking househusbands. All of these things are role reversal.

So why don't we see more of it fantasized? Role reversal is actually all around us if we take the time to look.