Married man here. My relationship with my wife is tenuous at best and intimacy is non-existant unless I initiate and even when I do, there is a lack of enthusiasm and general care for it all. I am a giving lover, but looking at closed eyes and the "close your eyes and think of England" during sex is off-putting at best.

I want to find a woman who is in the same boat I am, or if single, willing to deal with the situation. I love good conversation and consistent communication. I work 2 jobs, and I do my best to make sure communication is as often as possible.

I am open to quite a bit and have some kinks, and would be happy to discuss those with you if you'd like.

If you're interested, please reply with your favorite color and your basic asl stats, as well as anything else you'd like to share. And of course, feel free to ask me anything you'd like.