I’ll not American and I’m a international student. Any one from Togo. I never thought my dad was rich and I still do not think he is. However he has left 5 Million USD for me and my brother. He spent about 1.5 million all in on me and my brother’s education in the US. He had 3 million but I said fuck higher education (master) and my brother has a full ride now at a t-30 law school. I left the US to try my business which he funded only cost him 10k and it failed. I’m not going back to school to do a 2nd bachelor into hopefully a master. Money was never an issue. But I feel bad making him spend it. He keeps telling me that he’s old and we are his future and he doesn’t mind spending, yet I feel bad and like a failure. More over he wanted me to get in the family business (politics and shit) but I said no that I’d rather get a 2nd degree in math and burn more of his money. He’s very non-chalant about it? Like he does not care at all. None of this ever affected me until this year after I count all the money he spent. I feel bad living in his dime but not bad enough to listen and do the family business advice for me?