M49 4 f 35-52. It embaresses me to know how many men send d picks right away to women they have never met. And no fault but their own they probably never will. There are some really good guys out there worth getting to know. Also, just because you have a 1st date doesn't mean you have to go on a second date. And to the guys you have no right to stalk anyone or make them feel bad about not wanting to continue your communications. I would much rather have a shot gun to the check vs a bunch of small wounds over time. Again to the men, this is making it difficult to start a relationship without the other person always looking over their shoulder for another pecker heading their way. Contacting someone after they tell you not to is abuse and is every reason to get an exparte and no one wants that. I would love to learn about some other red flags women look out for before replying to messages. Merry Christmas and happy New Year's!!