M69 Here. And, even if I do say so myself, I am a moderately good looking guy. Definitely gray but still good looking. A bit on the heavy side. But still good looking. That is all the dating sites really give you to work with is looks. I have tried long profiles and short profiles. I have tried all different tones of approach from " Don't fuck with me scammers" to " I love and respect women" to basically no profiler description at all. And the results have been nothing. Literally nothing. I really am beginning to think that there aren't really any real people attached to these dating profiles at all. For a while I was being approached and then instantly ghosted. That sucked. Most of the dating sites have gotten too expensive to stick with so I have most recently settled for Facebook Dating and approaching women on Reddit. At least I can get a little bit of conversation on Reddit.

As a senior on Social Security, I don't have the money or inclination to go out drinking three nights a week, or even one. And I'm not a joiner. I wonder if I am doomed. Maybe there is something I haven't thought of that this group can share with me.