My (23f) boyfriend (27m) has a girl that he chats with on discord, for roleplaying and whatnot. I did make another post about this before but it's gotten a little worse I wanna say. She was engaged when I made my last post but apparently her fiance left her, and now my boyfriend has gotten more involved with her. Texting with her throughout the day, and even staying up late into the night (we are in different time zones) just to talk with her. I get that she's emotional right now, but I literally gave birth a week ago and we've placed the baby for adoption, so I've got my range of emotions too, but he seems to always be putting this girl first. I've been feeling more and more like his second choice, and I've tried to bring it up to him but nothing has changed. He says she's his "best friend" and she's going through a tough time right now (like I'm not???) Im sorry and it sucks about her relationship issues, but I feel like right now his main focus should be our relationship issues. I don't want to give him an ultimatum, I'm not that kind of person, but I am really hurting right now and could use some of that time and attention he keeps focusing on her. Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/RelationshipAdviceNow/comments/gnbbjb/discord_chatsemotional_cheating/