Me (M). I have a girl for 8 years. Tried to support in very thing I could. A few years in, find out she had kids. Lots of lies. Which said I had no right to know. Even lied about her age. Again, turned against me saying why does even matter. Still supported. Paid off bailiffs, a new phone when hers bricked, loads… even a new car. When she really needed gave her my bank card. I started struggling with money at a point last year. Said spend with care. And please pay it back. Wouldn’t ask. Unless I needed to at least cover spending at this time. She said ok. In summer she flipped and said no. I lost it a little. And admittedly said horrible stuff. 8 months. Now. Tired. Sick always at work so busy to meet. She said everything was okay. But was never interested in what I text. Made no effort to text or call. I had a major exam for which she promised would always support me. Did she fuck. I was during this time sending relentless messages about how she’s changed. Lots of things said in frustration against her but to also tell her I still want her nothing. Yesterday I told her to F off. She said she wanted to meet and talk. I said no. So now blames me for that too. Things could never go back to normal right? Am I right she’s played me. Or am I being silly. I just don’t know what’s right or wrong anymore.