M 43. F 42 In a relationship with a girl who’s very independent. Previously would always text or call especially when really stressed at work. Now changed her job. Does long hours. Tell me on the odd occasion when she’s not ignoring my messages that hours are long. She barely gets time to eat. Didn’t even wash her hair last week because she was so tired.

She doesn’t reply to my texts because have says I make it about myself when all I’m trying to say is let me be there for u. But no!! I’m the one that’s being selfish.

Am I being that needy. Is it wrong to expect a reply?

Literally just rips into my personality that I’m the neediest person she’s ever met, narcissistic, selfish.

I don’t know what I should be doing.

Any advice please