Hi. Sorry if this is awkward, I just feel like I want some advice since I don’t have many ppl irl to talk to about this. So, me and my gf have been together for almost five years now, and we’ve never been super intimate. We’ve never gone past very light kissing, and hugs on the couch while watching TV. I’ve always been the one to initiate it, too, which I’ve been okay with. I never put much thought into it until the last year or so. Around last year, I started asking her about if she’d feel comfy taking things to the next level. She said she didn’t really want to, which was totally okay! Tbh, I have a super low sex drive, so I didn’t feel upset or, like, blue-balled. I was mostly asking bc I want to be more intimate with her bc I really love her, and I feel like that’s a good way to show it, y’know? So she isn’t interested, which I don’t mind. But she talks a LOT about people she finds attractive, which I feel…less fine about. I mean, I get celebrity/fictional crushes (I have my fair share lol), but she also talks abt people she knows irl like that, like friends and classmates. I know that it’s probably dumb of me, but it kinda hurts to hear her talk about how much she’d like other people do all sorts of stuff with her when she won’t even hold my hand on a date unless I do it first. I feel a little stupid coming to the internet for help, but like I said, I don’t have many people irl to talk to about this. So any comments will be greatly appreciated, and I’ll try my best to respond. Thanks for listening.