Me (M18) and my girlfriend (F17) have been together for over a year now. She went to a party a couple of nights ago with her friends and a heap of other people our age. I am not a huge party fan so I did not go. While I trust her very much and I would do just about anything for her, I am also confident she would do anything for me. She went to this party and got drunk, and just recently she said “I found a video from Saturday night, wanna see” so I agreed to watch the video. I open it and she is in a minibus with all of her close friends and someone is filming her and then the most disgusting foul words come from her mouth, word for word she says - “ I tried to put it in my mouth, my big mouth which is really good for sucking dick, but it doesn’t matter because my name has a chode, it doesn’t matter it’s like really small, in case your wondering it’s like this big proceeds to show how big with her hand like really small” I was mortified when I opened this video. I thought it would be some funny wholesome video with her friends at a party and I never thought she would disrespect me like that and say those things about me.

Now for the record when we have sex, she asks to stop because it hurts her and I completely agree and respect the decision. I just don’t know why she would have said these things about me to her friends when she knows it’s not true.

We have so much planned together and we have an 8 month holiday planned for next year and I seriously don’t know what to do.

Do I keep going in relationship or is this just too far?

I feel as though we would do anything for eachother but I still just don’t know why she would say such things about me to get a laugh from her friends. I am so disapointed in her