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I get questions about this frequently so want to start writing this down!
As a dominant I’ve been interested in orgasm play for years: orgasm control, orgasm on command. There are a whole host of difference concepts, terms and techniques that can be blended together into the broad category of kinky energy, erotic mind control, tantric bdsm. I will talk how these all work together in a dynamic.
The idea that our dominant-submissive bond is strong enough that I can control their perception/sensation has been enticing for me. This is called erotic mind control.
Orgasm on command.
Several years ago, this was an aspiration that I thought would only occur later in the development of a dynamic, but now see that this is something that can occur much more easily using the proper techniques.
The skeptics question whether someone can have a “no-touch” orgasm. The answer is that a significant percentage of the population can. There is scientific evidence based on functional MRI that the same areas in the brain light up in a “no-touch” orgasm as in a physically stimulated orgasm.
How common is this?
Consider the number of boys who have “wet dreams”. That’s an orgasm which occurs as the result of a dream, not physical stimulation. Similarly a number women have had some of their earliest sexual experiences reading stories or listening to erotic tapes.
Clearly people get turned on by more than physical touch.
I use a 0-10 scale to quantify pleasure and pain. Technically there is a formal test called the Visual Analog Scale. For sexual arousal we can say that 0 is unaroused and 10 is an orgasm. As some point on the scale there will be erection, lubrication, preorgasm muscle contractions etc.
There are different techniques to result in Orgasm on Command using domination and operant conditioning.
I’ve looked at Erotic Hypnosis, and this seems very similar to some of the techniques to achieve orgasm on command, and it occurs to me that the hypnotist assumes a temporary bespoke if you will, dominant role. Essentially a service dominant.
The next broad area of “no-touch” orgasms are “Energy Orgasms” (google) and these come from the Tantric tradition. I had first looked into tantric techniques years ago in order to do extended orgasms. The Chakras are often described as energy centers in the body. The lowest three are sexual. The heart/chest is both sexual and emotional and the upper three chakras are mental/emotional/spiritual. 0-10 in the upper chakras could be pure ecstasy, and feeling deep spiritual connections, one with the universe etc.
The specific method I employ is called Kundalini Tantra, where the kundalini is an energy that exists within the body. Orgasm on Command can be seen as teaching someone to raise their Kundalini at a particular chakra to 10. Reading traditional texts, the “kundalini awakening” can take years however using analogous BDSM techniques when a good dynamic is present the kundalini can be lit and manipulated the same way as an orgasm can occur. Domination in this sense is guided meditation.
That’s enough for now.
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