CNC has been on my mind recently and similar to playing a song to get it out of your head I figured why not make a post and expand my very limited knowledge with some new perspectives.

As a switch I already have a couple perspectives. When dominating I look for continuing enthusiastic consent. I thrive on their positive, inviting, verbal and physical reactions. As a sub I want to keep and maintain my consent, knowing that I control how I give up control. The only exception to this has been the idea of a "foxhunt/primal take-down, that I've never had the opportunity to try out. Even that is pretty light on the CNC.

A few questions for the group:

1. CNC Yea or Nay?
2. How is the consent maintained (other than the standard safewords) before, during, and after the scene? Is there a full detailed plan or more a list of bullet points that allows for some surprises?
3. I was in my college days when #MeToo rose to prominence. That impacted me, learning how many people are pressured or coerced into giving false "consent." For those involved in CNC has this impacted how you play?
4. What is the motivation for the non-consent?