I’m on dating apps and meeting people irl, and sometimes the conversation of kink comes up. I want to know if there’s certain kinks worth mentioning, maybe something that’ll interest you the reader. What do you like to hear? But also what is and isn’t a kink?

I’m a Pansexual non-monogamous person, I’ve dated and fucked couples, trans femmes and nonbinary people. So I’m curious of everyone’s interest.

I 30M like sex, vanilla missionary and doggy but I also like to fuck my partners on different surfaces. Against the wall, edge of the bed, sturdy chairs and couches. Is this a kink? Does it interest people?

I love knowing a roommate is having sex, or my neighbor. Not directly seeing it but hearing it. I once lived with a gf and her best friend and we could hear her bestie getting fucked. We almost had a foursome. Is there a kink for this?

I’ve tied up partners with silky soft neck ties, which I prefer more than investing in shibari. Can I call that bondage? Or is it enough to say I like using my tie during sex?

I love recording us having sex, or have a mirror give me a good view of us. I like knowing that I’m being watched, or having an audience. I used to have a car and got head in the backseat often. Are all these things Exhibitionism?