I think I am entering the next phase of my womanhood (I am 41).

This is bringing back strong memories of being a teenager, as soon as I lost my virginity it awoke something inside of me. This was 26 years ago but I can still remember the change in me so distinctly, it's exactly what I'm going through now. All of us sudden - bam! - I was aware that I was an attractive woman who was desired by men and I could pick and choose who I gave myself to.

It was an incredibly intoxicating feeling and I became quite slutty for a few years (only up to third base unless they were literally my boyfriend) and now here I am again at the age of 41 feeling horny pretty much all day and doing things I never even dreamt about like sexting with multiple men a day, sharing xxx photos with strangers, blowing off social events and obligations because I just cannot tear myself away from my bed.

I wish there were an off switch for when I need to focus on other areas of my life. I posted last week asking if there was like a numbing cream for women there were several replies but none of them had any advice lol. When I get really wound up like this I simply have to climax, there's just no way through it.

But my work and social life is most definitely suffering. Has anyone been through this before? Can anyone give me some advice please?