I'm curious to how guys or girls message and interact with each other. I only recently got into messaging people on reddit a year ago and I've only had a handful of really good interactions but they usually don't reply again after that.

I really miss having a girl I could always send stuff to and just goon with but she ended up being way too into me and made things too serious. she wanted to move to my country and start to get serious about the relationship whereas i just wanted someone to cum with. She was a single mother and had a 1 year old kid and didn't exactly have the money to be doing things like that.

If you could tell me how to go about finding someone like that it'd be great. But I'm also interested what's the norm :)