I preface this post with this thought: my experience giving oral is only a year-ish old and the more I do my guy, the more I love it and so does he. We are definitely having fun.

I already know that every guy is different and in the end his opinion is all that matters BUT, since I’m fairly new to this, I do think tossing it out to a wider audience for ideas opinions and techniques can be helpful. I mean, I only know what I know. I don’t know what more/better way to do it is out there. It’s not like there is a “how to bj support group” readily advertised in my social circles.🤣🤣

So for the sake of this post, let’s just say your opinion is the only one that matters.

Here are my top of mind questions. Feel free to share your opinion on what makes oral mind blowing for you.

1. Hands or no hands?
2. Fast or slow? Some women look like they are in a huge hurry and just trying to get to the end. I like to take my time. 3.Gentle or Rough?
3. Suck or not suck? And by this I mean hard, like trying to get a thick shake up a straw.
4. The “pop” sound. I just watched a video on a woman doing this and it seems to me that pulling out of her mouth just to make the pop sound interrupts the process for no good reason. Like it’s just teasing him. Am I wrong or is that a turn on?
5. I also just watched a woman who one the down stroke could also lick his balls really thoroughly before going back up. However, in order for her to do that, she had to physically bend his cock slightly in order for her mouth to reach. That makes me squirm a little bit because I worry that bending a hard cock at all (but specifically in the opposite direction of its natural shape) may be painful. Discuss.
6. Kneeling in front of you standing or over you while you lie down?
7. Would you ever get tired of it? Would daily get boring, or worse cause any adverse health affects? Or is the opposite true? The more you get it the more you need it? kind of like a drug?
8. Cum in mouth or on body?
9. Just the tip or tip all the way to throat?
10. You control or I control?

In my mind, on the floor in front of you, no hands, slowly and for as long as possible, all the way to the throat, every morning or night depending on your preference (not both but still daily),no unnatural bending, not too rough, with you taking control at some point, finishing in mouth is best.

Thank you in advance for responding.

Note: tried to pose this question in r/sex but apparently it’s not advice or education seeking enough so thought I’d try here. Thanks!