Know the difference and where you stand, ladies. Really take some time to consider if you are his dream girl or just a placeholder for him to find his dream girl.

Men are just as romantic as women if not more. They are willing to do anything for the woman they love. If his dream woman comes into his life he is willing to do anything for her. There won’t be any hesitation or fear of commitment, he won’t keep you waiting. If you are his dream girl he will do anything to get you to be his. You should never have to feel like you have to earn him, he should come to you, and you to him.

And if you and him enter into a relationship, always keep an eye out for signs whether he truly loves you or he sees you as temporary. It is OK to test your man, in fact it should be encouraged. By this I mean to use every conflict in your relationship as an opportunity to see his mannerisms. See how far he would go for you. Observe his temper and how he handles stressful situations with you. Does he take you into consideration when making hard choices? Does he make you feel heard and validated? Does he make you feel provided for and protected? Only provide him with respect and comfort if he provides you with his loyalty.

I am tired of seeing posts in dating subs complaining about how women feel pressured by their man to change. How their man prefers blondes or athletic girls and how they feel they can’t match it. If you follow the RPW mindset then you’re already undergoing all the right steps to make your man the happiest they can be in a relationship, and if he is making you feel like you’re unsatisfactory then you’re probably not the one he’s looking for. A man should never make you feel that way, know the difference if you’re his dream girl or just a stepping stone for him to reach one closer to it.