[hopefully this doesn’t break any rules 😂]

Apparently, all I need to do is post about trouble finding people and... 😂 I I got several messages after my post. One was from a relatively new redditor who was visiting from out of town soon. I didn’t realize when we started talking that ‘soon’ would be today. Nothing about this followed my ordinary “process” but I guess that hadn’t been working so well and this...well...the pic speaks for itself.

I guess sometimes it works better to go with the flow. It’s been a really long time since I’ve met someone new, and it’s been a really long year for me in the hotwife realm. Not without trying, and more than a few have made it to the “we should do coffee” phase, a couple have even been scheduled and fallen through. In any case, when J ( u/Master_masseur) reached out with an actual coherent, polite message - with a (not a dick) pic - and asked if I was actually in MA as my name suggests, I was skeptical. Despite being new to Reddit, he had actual meaningful post history. He’d done some research to know I preferred someone with experience, which he shared (prospective bulls — take note). We chatted a bit and moved to kik. We covered a few more basics but not the 101 questions I usually cover in more or less the same order. He asked questions, I answered & asked more but we did not jump into ‘favorite positions’ etc. When I realized our schedules might match —today — we tentatively decided on coffee. Well, I was tentative. He was pretty confident that things would work out. I had a pause to put my son to bed and when I came back, was pleasantly surprised to find a live-shot video hello to verify — without me asking for it. He was respectful. Hadn’t even asked for a face pic or asked to send nsfw pics. I don’t know the last time I met someone without seeing a dick pic. It was completely not what I usually see and he actually has more experience than I usually go for. But I figured it wouldn’t hurt to meet (& his experience wasn’t any different from some of the long-time swingers we’ve met at the club).

I was nervous having been out of practice, but every time I had a question, he had an answer, usually followed by “it’s just coffee.” Somewhere in there, he also decided to pick a hotel closer to me so I wouldn’t have to drive all the way into Boston - something else no one has (knowingly) done before. I thought this had to be too good to be true and surely he’d ghost. Hot guys almost always ghost on me eventually. Lol. Our chat was a blend of flirtation, family balance (more on that later), & factual stuff (testing, some of our limits, basic dynamic preference, etc) but all melded together. Relaxed and easy which is really unusual for me. Appreciated but made me more worried that something was going to give.

Today we met for coffee. My schedule was delayed by car repair but he was understanding. We had a good chat and he was everything he seemed — he even offered to buy my snack. (Again, rarely happens to me). At one point I realized I’d missed a call from home. I called back, expecting the usual quick check-in, but instead he got to witness full mom mode because of something that happened at school today. Awesome. Completely threw me off & I thought that would be the end of our day. It’s usually a few dates before anyone gets to see all of that. He wasn’t phased. I calmed down, knowing I’d just wasted time and thrown off the day. My original plan was coffee & if it went well, maybe a visit later during his trip. Instead he related a situation with his kids, and suggested we at least leave to help de-stress. Another win. I also don’t usually go from coffee to more, but his hug was good & his hotel was nearby so I figured at least it’s a good talk. We only had a short time left and no expectations (except maybe a shoulder rub as he does massage)...

It did start with a shoulder massage, but...you can see where we ended up. Clothes stripped - not even in a hurried rush but as he rubbed his hands on me, and I gave in, needing the break. I shifted my mental energy quickly, reminded him of our condom rule, let myself lie back and enjoy ... his touch, hands all over, kisses down my neck and chest, nibbling my nipples gently. I felt his cock press against me through his clothes and am sure I must have blushed. He took those off quickly. He pulled me closer to the edge of the bed and reached for a condom. In record time I felt the tip of his cock against me, pushing in slightly. How did he know I loved this? He teased my clit a bit before sliding in for good. Dear god how I missed that...so much...it felt so damn good. Wow. And he definitely knew what he was doing. I don’t know how many times I came but hope he was having half as much fun. He fucked at various speeds & angles, pausing to rub against my clit a few times. Sucked my nipples some more while playing with my clit. Paused fucking without taking his cock out - while he fingered my clit in all the right ways. Damn. Asked if he could cum on my body (because we hadn’t quite covered every detail ahead of time 😂). After I came hard again, I felt him pull out, rub against me, heard the condom come off, and felt the amazing feeling of another man’s warm cum hitting my belly. I asked if he’d take a pic & couldn’t wait to send it to my husband, who replied as I was still catching my breathe.

Alas, I did have to go attend to family obligations but am hoping to finish what we started (for now) before he leaves town in a couple of days. Nothing “as usual” but exactly what I needed in so many ways.