Are you a younger lady or couple looking to learn and grow? Have you harbored fantasies of opening your relationship and experiences, but aren’t sure how to do it? Looking for a Dominant with a lot of experience and a firm hand, but is also respectful and courteous? Maybe you’ve had a taste of what this is like but haven’t found a reliable man, so you want to go further? It takes time to build trust, but once that’s established, great things can happen.

I’d like to introduce myself. I’m in my 40s, almost 6 ft. and 180 lbs. Square jawline, short salt and pepper hair, broad shoulders, uncut and very veiny manhood. I have tan caramel skin, and well-established with how to put my body to use for pleasure. I am very open minded and bi-friendly, have explored the spectrum, but I mainly find myself being some sort of Daddy Dom nowadays. I’m a consummate professional, and am most compatible with others of a similar mindset. I’m DDF clean. Have my life together, have done a lot and like to teach what I've learned.

I prefer younger people (not just biological age but state of mind) who haven’t done much, but am not limited to this. If you are curious and eager and mature for your ages despite having long happy lives ahead, this could be right for you. We can begin on the “vanilla” side first before doing anything too freaky. I’m looking for something ongoing, because that builds chemistry so we can have an increasingly intense amount of fun.

Although I’m not interested in a mechanical relationship and being mindful of the etiquette here, I am quite giving and resourceful in numerous ways, and would be open to being generous, helping you two with bills and other costs. Life happens, I get it can be hard after the pandemic - just ask for help, there’s no shame in that. (It’s actually a kink of mine.) No strings attached, as long as we get along and have a great time, that’s what counts. If you have your own transportation and can drive to me when I’m able to host, that’s a plus.

I’ve trained numerous couples before. I’m full of stories and what I’ve learned that I’d like to share. I have a soft spot for certain scenarios, such as:

• Being in roleplay scenarios as the “older man”, I have actually been a teacher, so if this appeals, bring it up.
• Lots of dirty talk. I’m very verbal and communicative, whether that means outright primally moaning, or phrases that make you aroused
• Voraciously pleasing a woman while her man watches and touches himself (and perhaps joins in), from sensual to a lot rougher. I am reliable with performing and find it hot if you’re nervous but excited. :)
• I really do like sharing the lady and complimenting her as we spitroast, or take turns enjoying her body
• Having the man on his knees and service me while she watches and directs the show is naughty. (I’m versatile and I do like to return the favor.)
• While I don’t characterize myself as a “bull”, I have done this before, and bull/hotwife/cuckold arrangement can be enjoyable
• Sensory deprivation play with blindfolds, bondage and hot wax too
• I adore when everyone is into everyone. Watching you two hold hands and be affectionate while I give you two a massage or shower together, or perhaps we can take it as far as me plowing him while you’re holding hands (awww)
• Creampie play - cumming inside of her and having him clean up. Also big on saliva and lots of licking.
• Public risky play (safe but thrilling), such as behind the tinted windows of a car, or perhaps in a hotel hallway, or even a car park’s stairwell or abandoned building.
• Raceplay and other “taboos” - very fun in a safe space.
• Bigger groups. I’ve done this many times too, and it’s going to be easier now that more folks here are getting vaccinated. Inquire within.

I’m open to more. Just bring it up, hearing your fantasies and helping them happen is one of my kinks.

Rest assured I will show the utmost respect for any consideration and limits you have. When I began, I was mentored by others in the swingers/kink/BDSM lifestyle and community, so this is my way of giving back and fulfilling some of my desires with reciprocity. I am very much aroused by the dynamic of being wild behind closed doors, but maintaining the decorum of discretion with a professional life. I value intelligence and compassion - and you have my assurance that if we agree to do this together, I won’t flake on you. I just ask for the same of you.

It’s obviously easiest to meet up if we are near and have similar availability. So I’ll share that I’m by Downtown Capitol Hill, Seattle, and am often a night owl but also an early riser, depends on the schedule.

Want to pursue an adventure together? If you feel you’re a good fit based on the above or even the slightest bit curious, just ask. I’m open to chats and private messages, and I can also text. Thank you for reading. I hope you’re harder/wetter as a result of it.