(NSFW)

I’m casually optimistic about meeting someone who fits the description of what I want: a nice guy, 50 years or older , who lives in Texas, preferably Houston (where I live). Because of work, I travel to Dallas and Boston often enough that it would be okay if you live there. If you don’t live in any of these cities, there’s just no way we’d realistically be able to meet even initially, and then consistently afterward.

I’m not obsessed with anything like black hair versus blond, or green eyes versus blue. Tall and handsome is nice, but not a really big deal for me specifically. The main thing is that you’re nice, patient person, who lives locally. I am not interested in getting to know you wholly online. It’s just not a good way to move forward IMO. And I’m not interested in anyone who is married , no husbands please 🙂

Intimacy and friendship means that in addition to exploring our ANR fantasies together, we could spend time together doing other things, too: taking a night out for dinner and the symphony; taking in a ballet; even spend a weekend hiking, I’m down. I like the outdoors as much as I love dressing up to take in a night of Beethoven. If you’re someone similar to me, you’d probably enjoy these things well.

If you don’t know what ANR is, we probably wouldn’t be a match. As far as exploring other fantasies together, I also really love being spanked—in like a fun way, not into any of that dom/sub stuff. There’s a whole world of incredible sensual stuff to focus on once you click with someone you’re attracted to, and so I’m definitely open to exploring other things as well 😉

I should describe myself. I’m medium height, Black, with black hair and dark brown eyes. I am not considerably busty. I do work out a lot, it’s a passion of mine. But I don’t mind if you aren’t into working out, and you don’t have to have a gym physique. Just…casually hoping to meet a nice, like-minded guy. Probably not super likely but, we’ll see ☺️

**** I can be a little bit spotty with messaging back and forth, it just means I’m doing something that I have to prioritize over being glued to my phone (especially when I’m at work!) so if you send me a respectful, not dirty message, I will respond in kind, even if it takes me a minute. And even if we’re ultimately not looking for the same thing, still shoot you a respectful “Re:” lol