“Grief, I’ve learned, is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give, but cannot. All that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.” ― Jamie Anderson

I heard from a therapist recently that one of the best ways to help people through grief is to ask them about the person (or pet) they lost, to give them space to share the love and joy of the person who is gone. And this year has taken a lot from so many people. I would love if people shared the love for what's lost with me. And it doesn't have to be someone who has died. Did you lose a friendship this year? A job you loved? Is it grief for your health? Do you still miss someone or something you lost years ago? I want to hear about it all! I want to commiserate and celebrate with you, and share the weight of being human.

Please do not include any identifying information about other people (living or dead), I want to make sure privacy is respected.