Hi, I'm Ben. Looking for a partner, casual is best to start as I take a while to connect and have a packed schedule but I am open to a serious relationship if we're compatible.

About me:

28, 6'7", living in East Stroudsburg, PA alone, average build soon to be athletic, long brown hair, reddish beard, tattoos, small gauges, INTP. Into comics, sci-fi, gardening, swimming, hiking, drawing, writing, reading, collecting vinyl and getting into brewing when there's time.

Get along very well socially but prefer small groups or being alone with my partner over big parties and stadiums. Have a cat, also a dog person but don't have one right now. My end goal is owning a property and providing for all of my basic needs myself by building a homestead.

Currently a night auditor at a hotel with a second job and working on building a side business selling vintage toys online. DDF, single, no kids, 420 friendly but don't smoke right now, non-drinker, experienced semi-retired psychonaut. Very kink friendly but not a requirement as my sexuality is relatively fluid in relation to my partner's needs. Able and willing to verify however you prefer and need you to do the same.

Who I'm looking for (NSA fun):

Would be cool if we shared interests but if not be willing to learn about mine because I'm definitely willing to learn about yours. Want to be able to at least chat with you outside the bedroom. Identify however you want, Im attracted to anything from feminine to androgynous. Not Bi, so open to AFAB and pre-op if Trans or NB. Looking for someone who takes care of themselves financially because I'm in no position to "spoil you" outside of fun activities, dinner dates, etc. Age is irrelevant as long as you're 18 and we find each other attractive. Honesty, I'm not fragile.

Who I'm looking for (Relationship):

32ish or under, like the option of starting a family at an undetermined future date.

Body type isn't too important to me if we're keeping things casual but if we get serious I need a partner who prioritizes their weight enough not to endanger their health. We all have different body types so thick and active is great long term if you're naturally squishy but I'm not going to build a life with someone who's morbidly obese and never wants to help themselves or do fun exhilarating stuff in nature with me. Down to help keep you accountable on your fitness journey if you want and if you will do the same for me.

I don't care about occasional responsible usage of soft to medium drugs (Pot, Mushrooms, etc.) but pass me by if you're a hard drug addict.

I believe in taxing the rich, a living wage, gay marriage, decriminalized drugs but am also a supporter of the second ammendment and a less intrusive smaller federal government. Always down for chatting politics and will respect your views as long as you can sensibly explain why you hold them. If you're neo-conservative or so "woke" you won't apply logic to a topic it's probably not happening.

Not particularly religious myself but I'm cool with whatever your beliefs are as long as you're not bombing planned parenthood centers or electroshocking queer kids. If your faith is so weak you're threatened by other beliefs I'm not your man.