Hello, Reddit. 

I have posted here before, but have not had any luck… It’s a long, specific post, so buckle up. 

I am a 40-year-old, SINGLE, good looking, professional, fun, and nerdy guy. I have a lot going on with work right now, plus I’m pursuing a degree and taking care of sick and aging parents. I’ve been mostly single since before covid hit, and to be honest, I have some physical passions and desires that I would really love to experience again. 

My life prevents traditional dating (*yes, even Tinder has been a letdown) and I’m way too long out of the game to have any idea how to navigate “hook-up” culture, without running the risk of hurting someone emotionally (which is the last thing I want to do on here). 

Long story short… I would love to meet a fun, happy and willing person who desires a man’s attention. If you would allow me to be crude, what I miss most about being with a woman is feeling her climax while I’m going down on her, so that is what I would like to offer/request. Reciprocity would always be appreciated but will never be necessary or expected. I would insist that you set all the rules and boundaries, and I will respect them and strictly follow them. 

I’m 6’ 1”, 190 lbs, 100% clean and clean shaven, I sport a professional but nerdy look.  I have an amazing job that offers me significant flexibility, but I do take care of my folks in the mornings and in the evenings (when the in-home nurses aren’t around), as well as take online classes on the weekends for my degree. That being said, I would love to find someone who would love a visit mid-morning to early evening, as often (or as infrequently) as you would like, for a relaxed and passionate hour(ish) of my attention.  *Nights and weekends are definitely possible, but will take a little more planning on my end.

About you: I would love to meet someone that is D/D free and absolutely loves receiving oral. Since it is what I miss most, ideally you would be able to climax from this (and if you could climax  multiple times a visit, it would be really amazing for me!). Your desire to return the favor is completely optional, and again, you make all the rules. Confidence is another huge turn on! I would love a woman who knows she is sexy, knows exactly what she wants from me, is willing to ask (or even demand it), and would be willing to relax and receive my attention as if she knew she deserved it! 

My job is in Providence, and I live 30 minutes away in Mass. Ideally you would be in (or around) Providence or at least within a 45 min drive. Your looks, age, marital/dating status, grooming preferences and body type is WAY less important than your craving for attention and possibly also having a sense of humor (it would be fun to be able to laugh a little about this weird arrangement... don't you think?). 

*And if I end up being a creep, I am just one push of the block button away from being removed from your life forever :) ... So, if you are curious, what would it hurt to reach out and chat a little?

Reach out if you would like to know more. Happy to answer any questions you may have. 

*You can check my bio or comment history for a recent body pic of me.  Willing to send more if we click.  

~Cheers