I'm a kink explorer who loves a whole wealth of thrills and is looking for new encounters and experiences. I'm 47 (people still tell me they think I'm in my 30s), 5'9", white European, fit, sane, educated, well-read and well-travelled, only play safe and get tested regularly.

I don't define myself by having a specific kink, there's just too much out there to explore! In my ideal play situation, the fun stuff emerges from the encounter between two or more people, finding out how to take each other to ever-new heights of ecstasy and depths of depravity. Consent, communication, respect, trust and aftercare are the essential ingredients for getting there. As well as playfulness, tactility, fun and the sweet joys of transgressing norms and conventions.

That said, I’m definitely more on the Dom side, although I can also switch in the right kind of company. Play that I LOVE and feel pretty natural with include:

• gangbangs, sex parties and bukkake (both participating and organising)
• playing with couples
• slut training and introducing newcomers to play in ways that they feel safe and cared for
• risky play in public places
• humiliation and servitude (giving)
• rough sex and CNC
• spanking, slapping and choking
• pleasure Domming and pussy worship
• restraints
• role play
• DP

I know this subreddit is called RandomActsOfSex but I'm also up for a more regular thing if we click. I'm taking the friends part in 'friends with benefits' seriously, and I really like connecting with those whom I play with on all sorts of levels.

I enjoy the company of people who are thoughtful, caring and kind in the way they deal with others, something that I also strive to be as well. At the same time, a bit of irreverence, quirkiness and that delicious sparkle in the eyes trigger my erogenous zones. 🥰 Sounds like your kind of thing? Drop me a line and let's make some magic moments happen!